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      <title>10 Tips for a Healthy Thanksgiving</title>
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&lt;br /&gt;Ah, Thanksgiving &amp;mdash; a time for family, friends, tradition, and most importantly, deliciously indulgent comfort food. From dinner rolls to stuffing to mashed potatoes and gravy, Americans look forward to this holiday as the quintessential day to feast with no remorse and certainly no counting calories! 
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&lt;br /&gt;But did you know that the average Thanksgiving meal will set you back anywhere from 3,000 to 5,000 calories and about 250 grams of fat? Considering the daily recommended total intake is 2,000 calories and 65 grams of fat, this &lt;i&gt;one&lt;/i&gt; meal can considerably hurt your chances of looking great at the holiday party. 
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&lt;br /&gt;&#8220;A 160 lb. person would have to run at a moderate pace for four hours, swim for five hours or walk 30 miles to burn off a 3,000-calorie Thanksgiving Day meal,&#8221; said Dr. Cedric Bryant, the American Council on Exercise&#8217;s chief exercise physiologist. &#8220;Many people start by snacking throughout the day and that combined with the meal can lead to a total caloric intake of 4,500.&#8221;
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&lt;br /&gt;Instead of committing yourself to an impossible post-Thanksgiving workout, follow our expert tips to make your holiday dinner enjoyable, delicious, &lt;i&gt;and&lt;/i&gt; healthy. Your waistline will be happy you did it!
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&lt;br /&gt;We&#8217;ve all been guilty of our eyes being bigger than our stomachs, so stay cognizant of your portion sizes this Thanksgiving. For any side dish, the general rule of thumb is to have your serving size not exceed the size of your fist (equivalent to &#189; cup). For turkey, it&#8217;s recommended that you have no more than 3 oz. as a serving, or approximately the size of a deck of cards. 
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&lt;br /&gt;The majority of people will have more than one serving of Thanksgiving items at the table, but always keep a mental tab that a fistful is equivalent to one serving. This mindful eating will save you a lot of &#8220;I can&#8217;t fit into my jeans&#8221; heartache later. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Eat your meal slowly, and really take the time to savor each bite, rather than inhaling everything on your plate. Remember that it takes 15-20 minutes for your brain to process you are full, so take your time! Portion control is also much easier if you use a smaller plate. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Try making whole wheat dinner rolls instead of using a white bread recipe, and by all means, stay away from that butter! There are tons of other healthier butter substitutes that taste exactly the same, like I Can&#8217;t Believe it&#8217;s Not Butter or just plain old margarine. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Skip the fatty chips and cheesy dips. Instead, opt for fresh fruits and vegetables. You can pair the vegetables with reduced-fat or fat-free vegetable dips, and fruits don&#8217;t need any accompaniment at all!    
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&lt;br /&gt;Canned ingredients contain tons of sodium and high-fructose corn syrup, so opt for fresh ingredients when it comes to the cranberry sauce. You can make an easy and delicious cranberry sauce by pureeing frozen, dried, or fresh cranberries in orange juice and water.
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&lt;br /&gt;Mashed and baked potatoes can be laden with butter, gravy, sour cream and cheese. Try making scalloped potatoes with a bit of olive oil and nonfat milk for a healthier alternative. Sprinkle a little low-fat cheese on top if you&#8217;re feeling adventurous!
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&lt;br /&gt;Vegetable casseroles are always a main staple of Thanksgiving dinner, but they don&#8217;t have to be topped with bacon or smothered in full-fat butter and cheese. Instead, use low-fat ingredients like 2% milk cheese and nonfat milk. 
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&lt;br /&gt;For a healthier option, skip the casserole part and just prepare the vegetables in a tasty and healthier sauce, like pesto. You can also roast your vegetables in a little bit of parmesan cheese for a delicious, low-cal treat.
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&lt;br /&gt;Stuffing is usually jam-packed with carbs, fat, and calories, but it doesn&#8217;t have to be. Try using whole grain wheat bread instead of white bread, and substitute fruit, nuts, vegetables, and a leaner meat for red meat. 
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&lt;br /&gt;You can have a juicy turkey without all the oil and gravy by reducing the cooking time. You can do this by butterflying the turkey, or removing the backbone and flattening the bird before cooking. 
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&lt;br /&gt;To avoid exorbitant calories and fat grams, opt for the lighter meat and avoid the fat-laden skin. 
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Desserts&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;If you &lt;i&gt;must&lt;/i&gt; have a taste of all those wonderful autumnal pies, think slivers rather than slices. And those pies should be made with nonfat milk, egg substitutes and sugar substitutes, like Splenda or Equal. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Because sugar substitutes are chemically structured differently than sugar, your dessert might come out different than anticipated (depending on what you&#8217;re making). To avoid this, you can use &#190; real sugar and a &#188; sugar substitute, or just use less sugar, and further sweeten your desserts with cinnamon and vanilla instead. 
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;General Advice&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;Nonfat and reduced fat ingredients generally taste very similar to the original ingredients, so try to buying the healthier version when choosing cheese, milk, sour cream, and cream. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Egg substitute also works very well for any recipes that require eggs, and the oil can oftentimes be replaced with yogurt, apple sauce, or low-fat sour cream. For sweeteners, try vanilla, cinnamon, or sugar substitutes, like Splenda or Equal.      
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;More Food and Nutrition Resources&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/3649-what-your-natural-biology-is-saying-about-weight-loss"&gt;What Your Natural Biology Is Saying About Weight Loss&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href=""&gt;Attitude is a Main Predictor of Eating Habits&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/3177-how-you-can-eat-healthy-at-work-and-home"&gt;How You Can Eat Healthy at Work and Home&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;&#8226; Informative Quiz: &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/videos/quizzes/show/89"&gt;What&#8217;s Your Nutrition IQ?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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      <dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nina Kim | AllHealthcare</dc:creator>
      <pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 15:51:00 -0800</pubDate>
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      <title>12 Things to Never Say to Older and Younger Coworkers</title>
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;With the downturn in the &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3148-is-healthcare-really-recession-proof"&gt;&lt;b&gt;US economy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, workplaces are becoming more and more &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2077-developing-diversity-in-the-healthcare-industry-"&gt;&lt;b&gt;diverse&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; age-wise. Older workers are working alongside younger workers as people at every stage in their &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/3255-7-best-reasons-to-get-into-healthcare-right-now-"&gt;&lt;b&gt;health care career&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; are getting laid off.
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&lt;br /&gt;With this generational gap among health care workers widening, there&#8217;s a lot of potential for &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2698-tips-for-effective-patient-provider-communication"&gt;&lt;b&gt;miscommunication&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; or differing perspectives. Though many people will absolutely deny that they have any pre-conceived notions about certain people, let&#8217;s face it &amp;mdash;  stereotypes are a reality in our culture whether we like it or not.
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&lt;br /&gt;To ease relations between older and younger &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/67"&gt;&lt;b&gt;health care workers&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, AllHealthcare has come up with six things never to say to an older coworker &lt;i&gt;and&lt;/i&gt; six things to never say to a younger coworker. Some of these may seem obvious, but you&#8217;ll be surprised to hear how many people have actually been asked these types of questions. So whatever you do, don&#8217;t say these 12 things!&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Older health care workers always get a bad rap for not being able to learn new tasks or &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/1385-automation-reshapes-opportunities-for-med-techs"&gt;&lt;b&gt;technology&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;. Yet there&#8217;s really no evidence that says older people are really less likely to be able to learn new tricks than they are at any other time in their lives.
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&lt;br /&gt;This question, along with any question that challenges the prospective technological competence of an older worker, should definitely be avoided in the workplace. &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3760-10-worst-time-wasters-at-work?page=3"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Email&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; has been around since the &#8216;80s, and research also shows that older workers have been using computers (or some form of them) for the past 20 years.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;To an Older Coworker: &#8220;I didn&#8217;t know you were so old!&#8221;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;This comment might come from an initially innocuous and complimentary thought, as in, there&#8217;s no way that person is that old &amp;mdash; she looks so young! But saying this out loud or expressing shock at an older health care worker&#8217;s age might well turn out to be extremely offensive to them.
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&lt;br /&gt;Before gasping or widening your eyes, put yourself in your &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3677-the-25-species-of-coworkers"&gt;&lt;b&gt;coworker&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&#8217;s shoes and think about the intent of your statement. If you&#8217;re just trying to say your older coworker looks good for her age, just say so. &#8220;You look great for your age!&#8221; will be taken far more graciously than &#8220;I didn&#8217;t know you were so old!&#8221;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;To an Older Coworker: &#8220;So are you planning to retire soon?&#8221;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Just because a coworker has gray hair doesn&#8217;t mean they&#8217;re going to &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/finance/articles/2992-retirement-tips-from-real-people"&gt;&lt;b&gt;retire&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; tomorrow. In fact, many health care professionals enjoy working well past the age of 60 because their work gives them a sense of purpose. 
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&lt;br /&gt;A &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/127-10-reasons-to-get-into-a-healthcare-career"&gt;&lt;b&gt;health care career&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; can be truly rewarding, helping you feel like you&#8217;ve accomplished something or made a difference in a &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3715-8-things-to-never-say-to-a-patient"&gt;&lt;b&gt;patient&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&#8217;s life. Plus, it&#8217;s always somewhere to go in the morning to spend most of your day doing something productive instead of just watching TV.
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&lt;br /&gt;Another big consideration to keep in mind is the current dire &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/finance/articles/2848-401ks-employer-contributions-get-the-ax"&gt;&lt;b&gt;economic conditions&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;. Your older coworker may not even have sufficient &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/finance/articles/2850-meltdown-101-how-layoffs-affect-retirement-plans"&gt;&lt;b&gt;retirement funds&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; saved up to allow them to retire, which would then turn this into a very awkward conversation. To stay on the safe side, don&#8217;t bring up the topic of retirement altogether. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=5&gt;Next Thing Not to Say &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;To an Older Coworker: &#8220;My grandpa gave me that &lt;i&gt;same&lt;/i&gt; advice.&#8221;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/8597/4-grandpa.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Your older coworker is not your grandpa. In fact, he might not even have grandchildren, which would make this comment especially irritating and offensive.
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&lt;br /&gt;Think of the connotations of grandparents. In popular culture, they&#8217;re depicted as old-school, not as physically capable, and suffering from some sort of dementia. This comment implies that your coworker&#8217;s advice will always be outdated and out of touch with reality.
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&lt;br /&gt;Older &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/67"&gt;&lt;b&gt;health care workers&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; are generally sensitive to age as a topic in general, so skip the grandparent talk altogether. If your coworker gives you advice you&#8217;ve heard before, just say &#8220;I&#8217;ve heard that advice before!&#8221; Just don&#8217;t specify that your grandpa gave it to you.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;To an Older Coworker: &#8220;&lt;i&gt;You&#8217;re&lt;/i&gt; going back to school?&#8221;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/8598/5-school.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Contrary to popular belief, &lt;a href="http://edu.allhealthcare.com/"&gt;&lt;b&gt;college&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; isn&#8217;t just for twenty-something-year-olds. With the &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/education/articles/3857-should-you-go-back-to-school-during-a-recession"&gt;&lt;b&gt;economy in decline&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, more and more older health care workers are choosing to go back to school to get a competitive advantage. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Getting &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/education/articles/2603-advance-your-career-with-healthcare-certifications"&gt;&lt;b&gt;health care certifications&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, completing &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/education/articles/3545-manage-your-healthcare-continuing-education-units"&gt;&lt;b&gt;continuing education units&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, and finishing up &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/content/advance_your_education"&gt;&lt;b&gt;bachelor&#8217;s&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; or &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/content/advance_your_education"&gt;&lt;b&gt;master&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&#8217;s degrees can set a candidate apart amidst a large pool of job applicants. And in this competitive&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/2805-reenter-the-healthcare-job-market"&gt;&lt;b&gt; job market&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, standing out is more important than ever.
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&lt;br /&gt;So it&#8217;s not &lt;i&gt;that&lt;/i&gt; crazy that your older coworker is going &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/education/articles/2159-back-to-school-guide-for-healthcare-students-"&gt;&lt;b&gt;back to school&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;. In fact, it&#8217;s actually a really smart decision to do so on their part. If you want to, you could even compliment them for having the great idea and initiative, and strike up a conversation about what they plan to do when they go back. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;To an Older Coworker: &#8220;There were some last-minute changes. Will that be too much to handle?&#8221;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;People generally stereotype &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/2070-the-after-50-career-change"&gt;&lt;b&gt;older health care workers&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; as less adaptable and more resistant to change. They say that since older workers have seen more initiatives fail in the workplace, they&#8217;re more likely to question change, but this isn&#8217;t necessarily true.
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&lt;br /&gt;Older workers can adapt well to &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3454-the-10-worst-mistakes-career-changers-can-make"&gt;&lt;b&gt;change&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; as long as they understand the reasons for it, which, of course, can be said about any worker any age. Don&#8217;t be condescending and question an older worker&#8217;s ability to be flexible. Age has very little to do with it.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;To a Younger Coworker: &#8220;Are you the new intern?&#8221;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Just because a newer &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/105"&gt;&lt;b&gt;coworker&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; is younger doesn&#8217;t necessarily mean he&#8217;s the new &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/2036-how-to-get-paid-at-an-unpaid-internship"&gt;&lt;b&gt;intern&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;. You were once a younger coworker too. Remember how intimidated you felt by all the experienced &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3854-top-10-qualities-of-a-great-health-care-professional"&gt;&lt;b&gt;health care professionals&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; in your first week? 
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&lt;br /&gt;The new, younger coworkers are probably already feeling vulnerable and out of place, so skip the demeaning questions and offer an olive branch instead. Who knows, you could even become a respected mentor for the new, younger coworker - which is always rewarding.
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&lt;br /&gt;Being condescending only makes younger employees feel like their professional contributions aren&#8217;t valued, which drastically reduces productivity. So for the sake of smoothly running company operations, &lt;b&gt;be nice!&lt;/b&gt; &lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;To a Younger Coworker: &#8220;You sound &lt;i&gt;just&lt;/i&gt; like my son/daughter.&#8221;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/8600/7-kid.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;This comment might seem harmless, but think about what you&#8217;re saying. Your &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3677-the-25-species-of-coworkers"&gt;&lt;b&gt;coworker&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; is not your son or daughter, and comparing a Gen-Y or Millennial coworker to your child at home can certainly be insulting. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Comparing your younger coworker to your child blurs the lines of professionalism because it immediately tells her that you view her as a subordinate. Show your younger coworker that you take her seriously, and skip the comparisons to your child.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;To a Younger Coworker: &#8220;How old &lt;i&gt;are&lt;/i&gt; you?&#8221; &lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/8601/8-howoldareyou.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;This question is a big &#8220;no-no&#8221; according to any company&#8217;s HR policy, regardless if it&#8217;s being asked to a younger or older coworker. Your coworkers&#8217; age, along with their race, creed, and sexual preference, is none of your business.
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&lt;br /&gt;he added emphasis on &#8220;are&#8221; makes the question extremely condescending, and asking this question to a younger coworker sends the message that you think he is &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/2428-how-to-get-a-healthcare-job-without-experience"&gt;&lt;b&gt;inexperienced&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; or shouldn&#8217;t be at the company. So skip the age talk altogether.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;To a Younger Coworker: &#8220;Considering this is your first job, you probably wouldn&#8217;t understand.&#8221;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;This statement is dangerous in that it assumes the following two things: 1) That this is your younger coworker&#8217;s first job and 2) That your coworker would thus probably not understand. 
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&lt;br /&gt;This is certainly one of the worst things you can say to a coworker because there&#8217;s no way this could be construed as a harmless comment. It&#8217;s an attack, presumptuous, and just downright rude. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Don&#8217;t assume this is your coworker&#8217;s first job just because she is young. Lots of younger &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3854-top-10-qualities-of-a-great-health-care-professional"&gt;&lt;b&gt;health care workers&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; get valuable, hands-on experience via &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/165-seven-ways-to-land-a-great-internship"&gt;&lt;b&gt;internships&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; and &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/3605-jump-start-your-healthcare-career-by-volunteering"&gt;&lt;b&gt;volunteering&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;. And certainly &lt;i&gt;never&lt;/i&gt; assume of &lt;i&gt;any&lt;/i&gt; coworker that she wouldn&#8217;t understand. It&#8217;s a surefire way to make instant enemies in the workplace.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;To a Younger Coworker: &#8220;When I was your age..."&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Your younger &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/105"&gt;&lt;b&gt;coworker&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; probably gets enough of this phrase from his parents, so do him a favor, and avoid bringing it up in the workplace. It&#8217;s understandable that you want to help your younger counterparts out, but this is the wrong way to go about it
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&lt;br /&gt;Instead of ever starting a sentence with this phrase, engage yourself in a more fruitful conversation if you&#8217;re trying to give advice. Ask your coworker questions and show interest, and only give advice if he asks for it. You can tell him how you &#8220;went about things&#8221; while &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2921-healthcare-professionals-guide-to-getting-a-promotion"&gt;&lt;b&gt;moving up the ranks&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, but avoid this phrase the best you can.  &lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;To a Younger Coworker: &#8220;The real world doesn&#8217;t work like that.&#8221;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Gen-Y workers have the bad rep of acting entitled, spoiled all while having a bad work ethic, but you can&#8217;t assume that all younger workers are this way. There are hardworking younger workers out there, and the ones you&#8217;re working with must have stronger work ethics than most (I mean, they got the job, didn&#8217;t they?)
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&lt;br /&gt;It&#8217;s true &amp;mdash; younger workers may not know as much as you but they probably know just as much as you did when you were their age. So don&#8217;t tell your younger coworkers what the &#8220;real world&#8221; is about. It&#8217;s condescending and implies they don&#8217;t know any better, which they very well could.
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&lt;br /&gt;Above all, keep your mind open to what younger coworkers might be able to teach &lt;i&gt;you&lt;/i&gt; &amp;mdash; they might just have a trick or two up their scrub sleeves!&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Career Resources&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt; &lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3715-8-things-to-never-say-to-a-patient"&gt;8 Things to Never Say to a Patient&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3822-how-to-deal-with-pushy-patients"&gt;How To Deal with Pushy Patients&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3674-10-things-to-never-say-to-a-nurse"&gt;10 Things to NEVER Say to a Nurse&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2698-tips-for-effective-patient-provider-communication"&gt;Tips for Effective Patient-Provider Communication&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3141-ten-tips-for-staying-happy-at-work"&gt;Ten Tips for Staying Happy at Work&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Just for Fun&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3677-the-25-species-of-coworkers"&gt;The 25 Species of Coworkers&lt;/a&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Must Read!&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3710-13-bosses-and-how-to-make-them-love-you"&gt;13 Bosses and How to Make Them Love You&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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      <dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nina Kim | AllHealthcare</dc:creator>
      <pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 15:50:00 -0800</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3902-12-things-to-never-say-to-older-and-younger-coworkers</link>
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      <title>10 Ways to Take Control of Your Health</title>
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&lt;br /&gt;If you're ready to take control of your health, start by washing your hands for 15 to 20 seconds, about as long as it takes to sing "Happy Birthday" twice. Doing this simple act, while avoiding certain behaviors -- smoking, excessive drinking and eating too much -- can dramatically improve your health, said internist William Meller, who specializes in evolutionary medicine in Santa Barbara, Calif.
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&lt;br /&gt;Prevention goes well beyond the mammograms, prostate screenings or blood tests that we can get at the doctor's office. It's the little steps you take that can keep you healthy.
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&lt;br /&gt;"Ideally, prevention should also emphasize healthy lifestyles, a practice that isn't only health-conscious, but (is) inexpensive," said James Pivarnik, president of the American College of Sports Medicine.
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&lt;br /&gt;Here are 10 easy ways to get started... 
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;1. Take a Walk&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;Humans are designed to be on the move, Meller said. "Walking triggers all of our bodily systems: digestion, stress relief, thinking and preparation for sleep." It's easy, simple, free and confers the benefits of exercise without the risk of damage from more energetic pursuits, Muller said. Walk every day -- barefoot is fine -- and get a pedometer to track your steps, shooting for a minimum of 10,000. Stay committed by setting walking dates with a friend.
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=3&gt;Next: Keep a Food Journal &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;2. Keep a Food Journal&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;Writing down everything you eat can double your weight loss, according to a study published in the American Journal of Preventive Medicine. "The more food records people kept, the more weight they lost," said lead author Jack Hollis, a researcher at Kaiser Permanente's Center for Health Research. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Scribble down your dietary transgressions on a note pad, use an online food journal or send yourself text messages. "It's the process of reflecting on what you eat that helps us become aware of our habits, and hopefully change our behavior," said Dr. Keith Bachman, a member of The Kaiser Permanente Care Management Institute's Weight Management Initiative.
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=4&gt;Next: Stop Drinking Soda &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;3. Stop Drinking Soda&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;Soda and other caloric, sugar-sweetened beverages have contributed to skyrocketing rates of obesity and Type 2 diabetes. But there's also evidence that drinking diet soda leads to weight gain. Researchers suspect that tricking the brain -- getting sweetness without the calories -- makes you crave more sugar than ever. Your best bet is to stop drinking calories altogether, said obesity specialist Dr. Yoni Freedhoff. 
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&lt;br /&gt;His most confused patients seem to be doing everything right but may have two glasses of milk, one glass of juice and one glass of wine a day. "That's roughly 40 pounds of liquid calories per year," he wrote on his blog, Weighty Matters. Freedhoff's advice: Don't rely on beverages for nourishment. 
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&lt;br /&gt;"A well-balanced diet replete with fruits, vegetables and proteins should satisfy all of one's nutritional needs," he said. "Liquid calories are not satiating and in studies tend only to add calories to a meal," said Freedhoff, founder of Ottawa's Bariatric Medical Institute, a multidisciplinary weight-management center.
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=5&gt;Next: Strengthen Your Muscles &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;4. Strengthen Your Muscles&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;If you want to keep your muscles from weakening as you age, start strength training. It's "the only style of exercise that maintains and increases lean muscle tissue and burns between 22 and 36 calories per day," said personal trainer Jim Karas. 
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&lt;br /&gt;He suggests starting with push-ups for the upper body and lunges and squats for the lower body. "Move slowly, and think about the muscles you are engaging. One slow set of 10 is all you need, but make sure to fail," which means you can't perform another repetition.
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;5. Chill Out&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;Stressed-out people are more vulnerable to colds and other viruses, they take longer to recover from illness and they gain more weight than their relaxed counterparts, research has shown. We also know that "the inability to feel in control of stress, rather than the stressful event itself, is the most damaging to immunity," wrote Joan Borysenko in "Mending the Body, Mending the Mind." 
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&lt;br /&gt;Another stress expert, Debbie Mandel, likes to lift weights when her stress levels creep up. "Then I'm ready to reframe negatives into positives to turn stress into strength," said Mandel, the author of "Addicted to Stress." In addition to exercise, deep-breathing techniques, meditation, tai chi and yoga are proven stress relievers.
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=7&gt;Next: Eat Out Less &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;6. Eat Out Less&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;We often use restaurants in the same way our parents used supermarkets, one of the main reasons for the dramatic global rise in chronic diseases such as obesity, Type 2 diabetes and heart disease, said Freedhoff. "Nutrition and calories aren't intuitive," he said. "When restaurant salads can have more calories and fat than a Big Mac, you know you're putting your health at risk. You'll save more than your money by eating meals in. You might even save your life." 
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;7. Be a Social Butterfly&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;Human beings are social creatures, if only because we need to reproduce. But research has shown that joining a club or sports team, belonging to a church group or keeping in contact with friends creates a sense of social identity that can help significantly reduce your risk of having a stroke, dementia and even the common cold. 
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&lt;br /&gt;"We do not outgrow our need for others," according to the MacArthur Foundation Study of Aging in America. "Loneliness breeds both illness and early death."
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&lt;br /&gt;Sleeping well is the single most overlooked factor critical to good health, especially during the flu season, said sleep specialist Dr. Rubin Naiman, an assistant professor at the University of Arizona's Center for Integrative Medicine. But because focusing on doing all the right things before bed can make it harder to sleep, Naiman suggests lightening things up, perhaps by watching comedy on television before bed. 
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&lt;br /&gt;"Too often sleep is approached with an anxious mind and heavy heart," he said. "Laughter is good medicine -- and good sleep medicine. I recommend it over sleeping pills." 
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;9. Eat Whole Foods&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;Whole foods -- fruits, vegetables, legumes, nuts, seeds, eggs and whole grains -- are unprocessed and unrefined and typically don't have added sugar, salt or fat. They often have a low glycemic index, which means they don't raise blood sugar and insulin levels as quickly as processed foods. Choose a baked potato instead of French fries, eat whole wheat bread instead of white bread, or start the day with oatmeal, rather than a sugary breakfast cereal. 
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&lt;br /&gt;"I eat as many fresh veggies and fruits as possible and stay away from anything in a bag, a box or a can," said Yvonne Conte of Syracuse, N.Y., the author of a guidebook to living a happier and healthier life. "When I started this, I lost 22 pounds. And it has stayed off. Best thing I ever did." 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=11&gt;Next: Find Your Passion &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;10. Find Your Passion&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;Do things that bring meaning to your days, said Patricia Boyle, a neuropsychologist in the Alzheimer's Disease Center at the Rush University Medical Center in Chicago, whose research has shown that having a higher purpose can reduce the risk of death among older adults. 
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&lt;br /&gt;"Purpose is cognitively stimulating, and this is very much along the lines of the adage 'Use it or lose it,' which certainly has merit," said Dr. Thomas Perls, director of the New England Centenarian study. 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;More Healthy Living Resources&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/3649-what-your-natural-biology-is-saying-about-weight-loss"&gt;What Your Natural Biology Is Saying About Weight Loss&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/2008-6-ways-healthcare-workers-can-beat-burn-out-"&gt;6 Ways Healthcare Workers Can Beat Burn-Out &lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/3177-how-you-can-eat-healthy-at-work-and-home"&gt;How You Can Eat Healthy at Work and Home&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/2486-stress-management-tips-for-healthcare-workers"&gt;Stress-Management Tips for Healthcare Workers&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/3363-lessons-from-the-code"&gt;Lessons From the Code - A First-Hand Account From A Crisis Clinician&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/3078-top-10-tips-to-balance-worklife-in-2009"&gt;Top 10 Tips to Balance Work/Life&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/3141-ten-tips-for-staying-happy-at-work"&gt;Ten Tips for Staying Happy at Work&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&#8226; &lt;b&gt;Need a vacation?&lt;/b&gt; Check out &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/3648-the-best-25-vacation-cities-for-healthcare-workers"&gt;The Best 25 Vacation Cities for Healthcare Workers&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;&#8226; Informative Quiz: &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/videos/quizzes/show/89"&gt;What&#8217;s Your Nutrition IQ?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;
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      <title>8 Friends to Make at the Hospital</title>
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/2746-why-work-at-a-top-hospital"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Hospitals&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; can be crazy places. From ambulances rushing in &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3715-8-things-to-never-say-to-a-patient"&gt;&lt;b&gt;patients&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; and nurses shouting vitals to security having to deal with frantic family members, you may blink and find you miss an important moment. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;But for many &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/67"&gt;&lt;b&gt;healthcare professionals&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, hospitals are their second home. With all the different departments and types of healthcare workers in hospitals, it&#8217;s not uncommon for newbies to feel a bit lost and overwhelmed at first. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Whether you are a seasoned healthcare veteran or a &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2887-nine-tips-for-starting-out-or-starting-over"&gt;&lt;b&gt;just-starting-out amateur&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, it&#8217;s always a wise idea to make friends with some allies and get better acquainted with the inner workings of the hospital. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;To help you maneuver your way around the hospital network, AllHealthcare spoke to a &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/12-career-guide-physical-therapist"&gt;&lt;b&gt;physical therapy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; doctorate student and an ER receptionist on the front lines at Kaiser Permanente. With their insights, we&#8217;ve developed this list of eight must-have friends in any hospital. Get the inside scoop on who to buddy up with and how they can help you out!
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=2&gt;Friend #1: Nurses &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Nurses&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;When a &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2747-difficult-patients-why-theyre-that-way-and-how-to-handle-them"&gt;&lt;b&gt;patient&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; is rushed to the ER in an ambulance, the blur of events and high-intensity adrenaline can be quite overwhelming. What are his vitals? What needs immediate attention? Which doctors are available? &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2698-tips-for-effective-patient-provider-communication"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Miscommunication&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; and confusion can occur &#8211; especially as the patient is handed off from reception to the nurses.
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&lt;br /&gt;Buddying up with the &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/1633-become-a-nurse"&gt;&lt;b&gt;nurses&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, especially the triage nurses, can ease tensions between the different hospital departments. Because the nurse manager has the most leverage with the nurses directly involved with patient care, it&#8217;s also probably not a bad idea to solidify this relationship as well. But don&#8217;t make the mistake of only befriending the manager. You probably won&#8217;t get much help if you neglect the workers in the trenches.
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&lt;br /&gt;&#8220;We, as receptionists, aren't allowed to administer any care whatsoever since we're not licensed, so we really need a nurse's help for those patients who come to the department screaming and bleeding.&#8221; says Kathleen Si&#241;o, an ER receptionist on the front lines at Kaiser Permanente in Anaheim, Calif. &#8220;It would lessen the stress in our environment if we could communicate better as far as anything missing on charts and printing out patient labels, armbands, and legal paperwork.&#8221;  
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=3&gt;Friend #2: Security &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Security&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;While medical professionals are trained to remain calm under pressure, you can&#8217;t always predict how incoming patients &#8212; and their caretakers &#8212; will react. 
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&lt;br /&gt;As a &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/2722-15-top-hospitals-that-are-hiring"&gt;&lt;b&gt;hospital&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; employee, you&#8217;re probably well-equipped to handle the actual patient, but sometimes the friends and family of said patient can be frustrating to deal with. A million different thoughts and emotions are probably running through their heads as they stress about whether or not their loved one will be okay.  &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s always a good idea to get close with the security guards just in case things get out of hand.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&#8220;Just last night an 18-year-old girl was brought in by ambulance, and her husband and father almost got into a full-on brawl in the middle of the department over who got to go in and see her first,&#8221; Si&#241;o says. &#8220;She only really had a fever!&#8221;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Remember: Just keep your &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/73"&gt;&lt;b&gt;empathy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; handy, but security on speed dial.
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;ER Technicians&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;The more calm and collected &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3822-how-to-deal-with-pushy-patients"&gt;&lt;b&gt;patients&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; admitted to the ER are generally able to wait for the next available doctor. Because they don&#8217;t require immediate attention, the ER techs are the first to begin their treatment. 
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&lt;br /&gt;&#8220;Patients will beg us for help with wheel chairs or pain killers, but once again, receptionists are not allowed to play doctor even in life-threatening situations,&#8221; Si&#241;o says. &#8220;Making friends with the ER techs, who are usually floating around the department anyway, would only benefit our flow.&#8221;
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&lt;br /&gt;An ER tech is basically a greatly expanded &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3030-nursing-psychiatric-and-home-health-aides"&gt;&lt;b&gt;nursing assistant&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, so they can be a big help. They perform nursing assistant tasks, like cleaning up and transporting patients and running lab specimens. They can also do whatever they&#8217;re trained in, including running EKG's, applying splints, teaching crutch walking, doing compressions, bagging patients, and drawing blood.  
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Financial Counselors&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/finance/articles/3525-what-to-do-if-you-cant-pay-your-bills"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Financial conversations&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; can be confusing, stressful or just downright awkward for not only the patient but for &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/2225-best-hospitals-to-launch-your-healthcare-career"&gt;&lt;b&gt;hospital&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; workers as well. For this, befriending financial counselors can really help clear the air. Financial counselors are trained to professionally and efficiently take care of any legal issues for each patient, like insurance, co-pays, guarantor accounts, and workers compensation cases.
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&lt;br /&gt;&#8220;Asking sick patients (or their family) for money makes all of us very uncomfortable,&#8221; Si&#241;o says. &#8220;Financial counselors are really good at showing empathy while getting the job done and collecting hospital fees at the same time.&#8221;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=6&gt;Friend #5: On-Call Contract Employees &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;On-Call Contract Employees&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;Even though it&#8217;d make everything so much easier, life doesn&#8217;t always go as planned. From family emergencies to unexpected illnesses, it&#8217;s not uncommon for &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/2100-specialty-hospitals-the-best-and-the-brightest-"&gt;&lt;b&gt;hospital&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; workers to have to take an unanticipated day off. 
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&lt;br /&gt;That&#8217;s why cozying up to the on-call contract employees can make your job at the hospital run a bit more smoothly. Your child has the flu? Your dad&#8217;s been in a car accident? The on-call employees have got you covered.  
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&lt;br /&gt;&#8220;Just in case we can't come in for work or need the rest of a shift covered, these people are always happy to help, especially if you&#8217;ve built a rapport,&#8221; Si&#241;o says
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=7&gt;Friend #6: Medical Receptionists &amp; Secretaries &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Medical Receptionists &amp; Secretaries&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;Since &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/content/administrative_managerial_health_careers"&gt;&lt;b&gt;medical receptionists and secretaries&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; perform administrative tasks to keep hospitals running smoothly, getting to know them will probably help your job run more smoothly as well. 
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&lt;br /&gt;&#8220;They work behind the scenes and are the gatekeepers with all the doctors and nurses,&#8221; says Anna Sirotin, a physical therapy doctorate student at the College of Mount St. Joseph. &#8220;If you get on their good side, they will be more then willing to help you with scheduling, the best time to reach the doctor, and work around your schedule.&#8221;  
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&lt;br /&gt;Medical receptionists and secretaries are also frequently privy to the inner workings of the &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/3538-6-reasons-why-you-should-choose-hospital-work"&gt;&lt;b&gt;hospital&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, and may know what&#8217;s happening before everyone else &#8212; making them a very good person to know.
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=8&gt;Friend #7: Interpreter &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;Since America is one of the most diverse countries in the world, not everyone&#8217;s going to have mastered the English language. But as a &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/quizzes/show/67"&gt;&lt;b&gt;healthcare professional&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, you&#8217;re useless unless you&#8217;re able to &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2698-tips-for-effective-patient-provider-communication"&gt;&lt;b&gt;communicate&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; with patients and see what&#8217;s troubling them. 
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&lt;br /&gt;That&#8217;s why an interpreter could be one of your best friends at the hospital. Interpreters not only speak other languages, they understand other cultures, so they can be sure what they&#8217;re saying is not only correct but sensitive and appropriate for the given situation. They can ask the questions you need to ask and get the answers you need, all while keeping your &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3715-8-things-to-never-say-to-a-patient"&gt;&lt;b&gt;patient&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; at ease.  After all, that&#8217;s what it&#8217;s all about, isn&#8217;t it?
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=9&gt;Friend #8: Medical and Clinical Lab Techs &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Medical and Clinical Lab Techs&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/375-career-guide-clinical-laboratory-technologist"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Medical and Clinical Lab Techs&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; are responsible for performing laboratory tests on patient samples in an accurate and timely manner. They play a crucial role in the detection, diagnosis, and treatment of disease, and doctors heavily rely on their tests to properly care for their patients. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Therefore, getting friendly with medical and clinical lab techs can only help you get your results faster. The technical experts in the chemistry department are there to answer any questions you may have about the lab tests and results, so a gregarious relationship with them can make this exchange more natural and productive. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Since Medical and Clincal Lab Techs understand the inner workings of the lab, buddy up with them, and they&#8217;ll probably tell you the ideal times to submit lab tests, how best to submit lab tests, and who knows, maybe some other secrets they may have.
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;More Resources&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/careers/articles/3538-6-reasons-why-you-should-choose-hospital-work"&gt;6 Reasons Why You Should Choose Hospital Work&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/careers/articles/2746-why-work-at-a-top-hospital"&gt;Why Work at a Top Hospital&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/2008-6-ways-healthcare-workers-can-beat-burn-out-"&gt;6 Ways Healthcare Workers Can Beat Burn-Out &lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2747-difficult-patients-why-theyre-that-way-and-how-to-handle-them"&gt;Difficult Patients: Why They're That Way and How to Handle Them&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3715-8-things-to-never-say-to-a-patient"&gt;8 Things to Never Say to a Patient&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2698-tips-for-effective-patient-provider-communication"&gt;Tips for Effective Patient-Provider Communication&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/3363-lessons-from-the-code"&gt;Lessons From the Code - A First-Hand Account From A Crisis Clinician&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/3141-ten-tips-for-staying-happy-at-work"&gt;Ten Tips for Staying Happy at Work&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;b&gt;Informative Quiz&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/videos/quizzes/show/60"&gt;How Do You React to Stress in the Workplace? [PhD Certified Quiz]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;i&gt;Some images provided by: Creative Commons&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nina Kim | AllHealthcare</dc:creator>
      <pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2009 11:23:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3866-8-friends-to-make-at-the-hospital</link>
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      <title>Top 10 Qualities of a Great Health Care Professional</title>
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/table&gt;Those who succeed in health care and gain the most fulfillment from it will start their careers with certain qualities. Do you have what it takes to be a great &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/67"&gt;health care professional&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;?
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=2"&gt;See Quality #1&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;1. Communication Skills&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;A great health care professional has excellent &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2698-tips-for-effective-patient-provider-communication"&gt;&lt;b&gt;communication skills&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; that include speaking and listening. They are able to follow directions without problem and can easily communicate with &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3715-8-things-to-never-say-to-a-patient"&gt;&lt;b&gt;patients&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; and families to understand their needs and explain treatments.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=3"&gt;See Quality #2&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;2. Emotional Stability&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;A great health care professional is very stable emotionally. Health care can be a &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3671-22-affordable-ways-to-de-stress"&gt;&lt;b&gt;stressful&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; career and professionals can encounter many &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/3363-lessons-from-the-code"&gt;&lt;b&gt;traumatic situations&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, suffering, and death. A great health care worker is one who is able to work without allowing the &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/2008-6-ways-healthcare-workers-can-beat-burn-out-"&gt;&lt;b&gt;stress&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; to cause great personal harm.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=4"&gt;See Quality #3&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;3. Empathy&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Great health care professionals have &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/73"&gt;&lt;b&gt;empathy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; for the pain and suffering of patients. They are able to feel compassion and provide comfort.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=5"&gt;See Quality #4&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;4. Flexibility&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;A great health care professional is flexible with regards to working hours and responsibilities. They are often required to work long periods of overtime, &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2496-cope-with-working-the-holidays-in-healthcare"&gt;&lt;b&gt;holidays&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, late or &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2495-survive-the-night-shift-in-healthcare"&gt;&lt;b&gt;overnight shifts&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, and weekends.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=6"&gt;See Quality #5&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;5. Good Attention to Detail&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;A great &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/67"&gt;health care professional&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; understands that every step in the medical field is one that can have far-reaching consequences. Therefore, they pay excellent attention to detail and is careful not to skip steps or make errors.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=7"&gt;See Quality #6&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;6. Interpersonal Skills&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;A great health care professional has excellent &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/71"&gt;&lt;b&gt;interpersonal skills&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; and works well in a variety of situations with different people. They work well with other &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/36"&gt;&lt;b&gt;nurses&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, doctors, and other members of a staff.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=8"&gt;See Quality #7&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;7. Physical Endurance&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;A great health care professional has strong &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3196-reduce-nursings-physical-strain"&gt;&lt;b&gt;physical endurance&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; and is able to tolerate standing for long periods of time, lifting heavy objects (or people), and performing a number of taxing maneuvers on a daily basis.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;8. Problem Solving Skills&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;A great health care professional can think quickly and address problems as -- or before -- they arise.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;9. Quick Response&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;A great health care professional can respond quickly to &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/3363-lessons-from-the-cod"&gt;&lt;b&gt;emergencies&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; and other situations that arise. Quite often, health care work is simply the response to sudden incidences, and professionals must always be prepared.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;10. Respect&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Great health care professionals respect people and rules. They are mindful of &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2492-confidentiality-in-social-work"&gt;&lt;b&gt;confidentiality&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; requirements and &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2077-developing-diversity-in-the-healthcare-industry-"&gt;&lt;b&gt;different cultures&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; and traditions. And they respect the wishes of the &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3715-8-things-to-never-say-to-a-patient"&gt;&lt;b&gt;patient&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Resources for Healthcare Professionals&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/2008-6-ways-healthcare-workers-can-beat-burn-out-"&gt;6 Ways Healthcare Workers Can Beat Burn-Out &lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2747-difficult-patients-why-theyre-that-way-and-how-to-handle-them"&gt;Difficult Patients: Why They're That Way and How to Handle Them&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3715-8-things-to-never-say-to-a-patient"&gt;8 Things to Never Say to a Patient&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2698-tips-for-effective-patient-provider-communication"&gt;Tips for Effective Patient-Provider Communication&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/2486-stress-management-tips-for-healthcare-workers"&gt;Stress-Management Tips for Healthcare Workers&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/3141-ten-tips-for-staying-happy-at-work"&gt;Ten Tips for Staying Happy at Work&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/3648-the-best-25-vacation-cities-for-healthcare-workers"&gt;&lt;img src="http://nursinglink.com/nfs/nursinglink/attachment_images/0010/8812/DC_max200w.jpg"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&#8226; &lt;b&gt;Need a vacation?&lt;/b&gt; Check out &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/benefits/articles/3648-the-best-25-vacation-cities-for-healthcare-workers"&gt;The Best 25 Vacation Cities for Healthcare Workers&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;&#8226; Fun Quiz: &lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.com/videos/quizzes/show/67"&gt;What Makes You an Amazing Health care professional?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;This article originally appeared on &lt;a href="http://www.career-advice.monster.com" target="_blank"&gt;Monster Career Advice&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">AllHealthcare</dc:creator>
      <pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 15:57:00 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>Six Tips to Survive Your First Year as a Hospital RN</title>
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/table&gt;The first year on the job is often the toughest for new nursing graduates, especially those who work in hospitals. In fact, new nurse graduates account for more than half of the turnover rate in some hospitals, according to a study published in 2007 by Johns Hopkins University School of Nursing researchers.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&#8220;There really are multiple reasons for [the first-year exodus],&#8221; says Patricia Benner, RN, PhD, professor at the University of California, San Francisco and a senior scholar at the Carnegie Foundation for the Advancement of Teaching. &#8220;One is that nursing practice is incredibly complex. Over the past 60 years, the transfer of responsibility to nursing from medicine has been incredible. I think society doesn&#8217;t typically recognize that.&#8221;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Because the sickest patients are in the hospital, hospital RNs need good clinical judgment and the ability to recognize when a patient needs immediate intervention -- challenges that are especially pronounced in a nurse&#8217;s first year of employment.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;So what can you do to make your transition from nursing student to working nurse easier and your first years on the job more satisfying? Here are some issues to ask about and consider before and after taking the job.&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;High turnovers indicate how the employer treats first-year nurses, Benner says. Turnovers higher than 20 percent are generally considered high in the industry.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Find Out About Orientation and Preceptor Programs&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;A preceptor is a teacher and coach who helps nurses become oriented and familiar with a facility&#8217;s routines, procedures and people, says Patricia Hooper Kyriakidis, RN, MSN, PhD, a nurse consultant and researcher and president of Practice Solutions, a Hendersonville, Tennessee-based healthcare consultancy. New nurses are more likely to stay if they have an experienced and helpful preceptor. That&#8217;s why you should ask, &#8220;Will a preceptor be available on my shift after the orientation to answer questions and help with clinical decision making?&#8221;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Inquire About Support&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Query the nurse manager about the level of clinical, social and emotional support available for new nurses. This support includes having experienced nurses on hand to help debrief a new nurse once he experiences a tragedy at work, such as a death. That debriefing must happen the day the event occurs, not a week later, Kyriakidis says.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Simply touring the unit won&#8217;t give you a good idea of how people work together, Kyriakidis says. Because it takes a while for people to let their guard down when someone is watching, make sure you observe for a few hours so you get a clearer picture of the unit&#8217;s interpersonal dynamics.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Consider Working on a Specialty Unit First&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Benner says her research on first-year nursing indicates that it&#8217;s actually easier for many new nurses to start on a specialty unit, such as labor and delivery or a highly staffed pediatrics unit, because the patients on those units are more homogenous than those on a medical/surgical unit.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Get Your Feet Wet&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;That&#8217;s what first-year nurse Girish Dang, RN, a psychiatric nurse at Melrose-Wakefield Hospital&#8217;s inpatient psych unit, did. While he was getting his ADN at North Shore Community College in Massachusetts, Dang worked on the hospital&#8217;s psych unit as a psychiatric counselor. He credits that experience with helping him hit the ground running when he began working as a nurse on the unit, because he was already familiar with the culture and knew whom he could lean on for help.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;The same can&#8217;t be said for all of his nursing school classmates. Dang says he knows of several fellow graduates who, lacking prior experience with their employers and insight about the staff and working environment, left their first nursing jobs within six months.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;&#8220;In my opinion, 90 percent of the things in the job are learned not in nursing school but in the job itself,&#8221; Dang says.&lt;/div&gt;
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      <dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Lisette Hilton / Monster Contributing Writer</dc:creator>
      <pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 16:15:00 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>How To Deal with Pushy Patients</title>
      <description>&lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3822-how-to-deal-with-pushy-patients"&gt;&lt;img alt="How To Deal with Pushy Patients" src="/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/6225/shutterstock_17774737.jpg?1254355325" style="width:387px; float:left; padding: 8px" width="380" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Every &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/67"&gt;&lt;b&gt;healthcare professional&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; encounters patients who are short-tempered, belligerent or just plain rude from time to time. But the frequency of these encounters may increase as the &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3671-22-affordable-ways-to-de-stress"&gt;&lt;b&gt;stress&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; level rises among &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3715-8-things-to-never-say-to-a-patient"&gt;&lt;b&gt;patients&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; and providers. Experienced &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/98-career-qa-physician"&gt;&lt;b&gt;physicians&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; and &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3040-career-guide-licensed-practical-licensed-vocational-nurses"&gt;&lt;b&gt;nurse practitioners&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; offer five tips on keeping your cool when tempers flare:&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="?page=2"&gt;Give Patients the Benefit of the Doubt &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Give Patients the Benefit of the Doubt&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Most &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2747-difficult-patients-why-theyre-that-way-and-how-to-handle-them"&gt;&lt;b&gt;patients&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; don't purposefully cause problems for health professionals. "I try at all costs to avoid labeling patients as being &#8216;difficult' or &#8216;pushy,'" says Brian Dwinnell, MD, associate professor of medicine at the University of Colorado Health Sciences Center School of Medicine. "Who's to say it is the patient being difficult and not the physician or at least the system in which the patient has been forced to receive care?" Remember, patient behavior that could be considered difficult is often "born out of intense emotions such as fear, anger and sadness," he adds.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="?page=3"&gt;Be Up Front and Sincere &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/2820-nursing-reality-shock-the-new-nurse-survival-guide"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Nurse practitioner&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; Linda Roemer, PhD, owner and CEO of Fridley Roemer Health Care Services in Panama City, Florida, tries to nip bad patient behavior in the bud by telling new patients exactly what to expect from her and her office staff. During her first meeting with a new &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3715-8-things-to-never-say-to-a-patient"&gt;&lt;b&gt;patient&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, Roemer makes her policies clear on everything from how quickly she returns phone calls to the process of calling in prescriptions.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;She is also up front in apologizing to patients who have had long waits. "I tell patients, &#8216;I'm here now, and you have my full attention,'" she says. If a patient isn't appeased, Roemer tries to empower the person by giving options. For example, she may suggest that a patient schedule his next appointment to be the first one of the afternoon so he won't have to wait again.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="?page=4"&gt;Put Yourself in the Patients' Shoes &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;Patients generally aren't angry at the &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/67"&gt;&lt;b&gt;healthcare provider&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, but at their situation, says John Song, MD, assistant professor of head and neck oncology at the University of Colorado Health Sciences Center School of Medicine. Try to get to the root of the patient's problem through open-ended inquiry. You may discover the patient has unrealistic expectations or is frustrated by insurance limitations or high copayments.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Roemer agrees. "Patients are usually pushy because they have a reason to be," she says. Simply recognizing and validating your &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2698-tips-for-effective-patient-provider-communication"&gt;&lt;b&gt;patients&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;' frustrations and concerns may improve the therapeutic relationship.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="?page=5"&gt;Maintain a Professional Demeanor &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;If you feel a situation is escalating out of control, take a time out, Song says. He recommends telling the patient, "I understand this is very upsetting to you, and I empathize with what you are feeling." Then leave the room to give the patient time to absorb what is happening.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="?page=6"&gt;Don't Let It Ruin Your Day &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;Family &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3039-career-guide-registered-nurse"&gt;&lt;b&gt;nurse practitioner&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; Debra Bergstrom, founder of Neighborhood Family Practice in Scottsdale, Arizona, doesn't let irate patients get under her skin. "Our philosophy is that we're not going to let it get to us," she says. "We try to identify the patient's real problem. Maybe they're afraid we won't take them seriously, are anxious about money or were treated poorly elsewhere."&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;According to Bergstrom, in a service business, "you may as well shut down" if you are bothered by every difficult encounter.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="?page=7"&gt;More Resources &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;More Patient Relations and Stress Management Resources&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2008-6-ways-healthcare-workers-can-beat-burn-out-"&gt;6 Ways Healthcare Workers Can Beat Burn-Out &lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3715-8-things-to-never-say-to-a-patient"&gt;8 Things to Never Say to a Patient&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2698-tips-for-effective-patient-provider-communication"&gt;Tips for Effective Patient-Provider Communication&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2486-stress-management-tips-for-healthcare-workers"&gt;Stress-Management Tips for Healthcare Workers&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3196-reduce-nursings-physical-strain"&gt;Reduce Nursing's Physical Strain&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3363-lessons-from-the-code"&gt;Lessons From the Code - A First-Hand Account From A Crisis Clinician&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2747-difficult-patients-why-theyre-that-way-and-how-to-handle-them"&gt;Difficult Patients: Why They're That Way and How to Handle Them&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3141-ten-tips-for-staying-happy-at-work"&gt;Ten Tips for Staying Happy at Work&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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      <title>20 Career Lessons from Celebrities </title>
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/table&gt;Celebrities. We love to hate them. We also love to watch their every move, laugh at their mistakes and scrutinize their decisions. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Like them or not, their celebrity status means not only have they achieved &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2921-healthcare-professionals-guide-to-getting-a-promotion"&gt;&lt;b&gt;career success&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, they&#8217;ve also got a hell of a lot to lose. And sometimes, whatever actions have helped catapult them to fame &lt;em&gt;or&lt;/em&gt; rendered them B-list &lt;em&gt;can&lt;/em&gt; provide valuable lessons for the careers of regular people like you and me.   
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&lt;br /&gt;AllHealthcare presents 20 career lessons from celebrities. Some are good. Some are bad. Some are just plain ridiculous. 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; Reinvent yourself often. Always stay fresh and relevant. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Never one to let things get stale, Madonna has reinvented herself over and over again since she first stepped into the spotlight in the mid 80s. 
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&lt;br /&gt;There was the virgin, the &#8220;material girl,&#8221; the Evita era, and her disco-fabulous look and sound of 2005. She&#8217;s had as many new looks as she has albums, and always manages to stay fresh and relevant. Reinvention is so central to her career, she named a tour after it. And 30+ years after her debut, she still manages to be at the forefront of the global music industry. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Elaborate personal transformations may not be realistic (or helpful) for mere mortals. But there&#8217;s a lesson to be learned from this pop icon. In order to thrive in a rapidly changing economy, it&#8217;s important to stay fresh, keep your skills up to date and be adaptable to new directions in your &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3519-10-ways-to-make-yourself-unfireable-"&gt;&lt;b&gt;career&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;. 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; Don&#8217;t crack under pressure.
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&lt;br /&gt;The action movie star famously lost his temper on the set of this year&#8217;s &lt;i&gt;Terminator Salvation&lt;/i&gt;, shouting countless profanities at the film&#8217;s director of photography, Shane Hurlbut.  
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&lt;br /&gt;His fit of rage was caught on tape, and of course, a YouTube video quickly circulated the internet. His reputation went from sexy, brooding screen legend to world class A-hole (still kind of sexy though). 
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&lt;br /&gt;Getting worked up at work is not uncommon or unexpected. But keeping your cool in the face of blood-pressure raising circumstances is essential, not just to your reputation at work, but to your overall &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3671-22-affordable-ways-to-de-stress"&gt;&lt;b&gt;health&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; and &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3141-ten-tips-for-staying-happy-at-work"&gt;&lt;b&gt;happiness&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;. Lose your temper like Mr. Bale and you may never live it down. 
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;#3: Britney Spears&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; You &lt;em&gt;can&lt;/em&gt; make a comeback, but be prepared for a long &amp;mdash; and sometimes ugly &amp;mdash; road to recovery. 
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&lt;br /&gt;The past five years have been tough for this former teen pop starlet. She was in the midst of a custody battle with estranged husband (and total leach) Kevin Federline, had been deemed an unfit mother, battled drug addiction and once famously shaved her head for no apparent reason. 
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&lt;br /&gt;She&#8217;d hit rock bottom.  And thanks to the paparazzi, she did so right before our prying eyes. In 2007, her attempt at a comeback at the MTV Video Music Awards was panned by critics and fans alike; onstage, she appeared detached, disinterested, drugged. Simply showing up for the gig was &lt;em&gt;not&lt;/em&gt; enough.   
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&lt;br /&gt;But two years later, she&#8217;s back. She may not be the mega star she was before her fall from grace, but she&#8217;s no longer a media laughing stock.  Her latest album is doing respectively well, she&#8217;s on tour, has her post-meltdown body back, and looks healthy and happy. With a little bit of hard work, she's managed to get her &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2887-nine-tips-for-starting-out-or-starting-over"&gt;&lt;b&gt;career back on track&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, at least for the time being. 
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;#4: Simon Cowell&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; Sometimes, it pays to be a hard ass. 
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&lt;br /&gt;The notoriously straight-faced American Idol judge earns a reported $34 million a year (said to be bumped up to a whopping $144 million next year). 
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&lt;br /&gt;While Paula Abdul gives endless (and often unintelligible) praise, Randy Jackson looks for the silver lining, and Kara Dioguardi strips to outdo Bikini Girl, Cowell tells it like it is (and sometimes, much worse). Viewers love to hate him, but the fact remains: contestants respect his opinion more than that of the other three. And so does America. More often than not, Cowell's feedback directly impacts the shows votes and consequently makes or breaks a contestant&#8217;s shot at winning. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Simon may take brutal honesty a little too far, but he teaches us that sugarcoating your opinions and backing down when challenged won&#8217;t earn the respect of your peers, your reports or even your superiors. Stand up for yourself or you might just find yourself in your rightful place as the office doormat. 
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;#5: Kim Kardashian&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; It &lt;em&gt;is&lt;/em&gt; who you know. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Long before she was known for her &#8220;assets,&#8221; Kim Kardashian came into the spotlight as the BFF of celebutante and tabloid favorite, Paris Hilton. 
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&lt;br /&gt;She now has her own reality show (Keeping Up With the Kardashians), a workout DVD and of course, a sex tape. In addition to being friends with Paris, Kardashian is the daughter of late OJ Simpson lawyer Robert Kardashian and the stepdaughter of Olympian Bruce Jenner. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Is it fair that she rakes in millions for no other reason than who she knows? Of course not. But life rarely is. And nepotism is not exclusive to the entertainment industry. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Most people get jobs through &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/752-schmooze-whether-you-like-it-or-not"&gt;&lt;b&gt;someone they know&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;. Who &lt;em&gt;you&lt;/em&gt; know may not make you millions or snag you your very own TV show, but he or she &lt;em&gt;can&lt;/em&gt; help you get a foot in the door and set you on your path to &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/2571-7-secrets-to-career-success"&gt;&lt;b&gt;career success&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;. 
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;#6: Kate Moss&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; Be discreet about your "extracurricular activities." And please, stick to the legal kind.
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&lt;br /&gt;The English supermodel came onto the scene in the early 90s. Since then she&#8217;s become the face of numerous beauty products, launched her own clothing line, and dated just about every scruffy man in Britain. But of all her high profile love interests, none has been more controversial than Libertines front man and &lt;em&gt;known&lt;/em&gt; drug addict &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pete_Doherty" target="blank"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Pete Doherty&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. In 2005, photos of her snorting cocaine were all over Britain&#8217;s Daily Mirror. Allegedly, one of Doherty&#8217;s friends snapped &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IWAyBvn2uGw" target="blank"&gt;&lt;b&gt;the footage&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; with a cell phone and sold it to the tabloid. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Drug use in the modeling industry isn&#8217;t exactly breaking news. But stills of Moss ingesting copious amounts of cocaine were rattling &#8211; especially after she&#8217;d vehemently denied drug use throughout her career. She lost several multi-million dollar modeling contracts and checked into rehab shortly after. She bounced back, but she'll always be remembered as "Cocaine Kate." 
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&lt;br /&gt;While Kate&#8217;s example is a bit extreme, it does remind us that any questionable activity we engage in off the clock &amp;mdash; even binge drinking &amp;mdash; can come back to bite us.  
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;a href=?page=8&gt;#7: George Lucas &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;#7: George Lucas&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; Don&#8217;t be afraid to take risks. 
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&lt;br /&gt;The creative genius behind Star Wars and Indiana Jones didn&#8217;t get to where he is today by following the rules. Sure, he went to USC Film School, and yeah, he interned at  Warner Brothers, but so did countless other filmmaking hopefuls. Lucas was fearless in the face of risk. Combine this fearlessness with a knack for innovation, and you&#8217;ve got a recipe for multi-billion dollar success.
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&lt;br /&gt;Early on in his career, while negotiating his director&#8217;s fee for Star Wars, he agreed to take a $500,000 pay cut in exchange for all sequel rights and ownership of the film&#8217;s merchandising &#8211; things the studio thought were pretty much worthless. Silly studio! He made tens of millions of the merchandising and financed the making of the sequels himself. Which, as you can imagine, had a huge return on investment.  
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&lt;br /&gt;He also took a break from movie-making to pour his fortune into other projects &#8211; namely, his digital effects and innovation studio Industrial Light and Magic. The studio began taking on special effects work for other filmmakers at $25 million a pop. He then went back to produce his Star Wars &#8220;prequels,&#8221; which went on to break box office records. Taking risks early on in his career made him the success story he is today. 
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;#8: Susan Boyle&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; It's never too late to fulfill your dreams. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Susan Boyle had a difficult start to life. She was born oxygen deprived, was later diagnosed with learning disabilities, and suffered incessant name calling as a child. She lived in her family&#8217;s Council Estate (the UK&#8217;s version of social housing) for the bulk of her life and was chronically unemployed. 
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&lt;br /&gt;She almost didn&#8217;t audition for Britain&#8217;s Got Talent, fearing she was &#8220;too old and that it was a young person's game." It&#8217;s a good thing she did. Her audition stunned the judges and audiences alike. Although she did not win the competition (she came in second), Ms. Boyle has seen a rapid rise to global fame and is now recording her first album. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes, just when you think you&#8217;ve missed the boat, you get a &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/2047-how-to-return-to-work-after-time-off-"&gt;&lt;b&gt;second chance&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; to turn your life &amp;mdash; and career &amp;mdash; around. Don&#8217;t ever let your &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/2070-the-after-50-career-change"&gt;&lt;b&gt;age&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; or &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/2428-how-to-get-a-healthcare-job-without-experience"&gt;&lt;b&gt;past experiences&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; stop you from trying.  
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;a href=?page=10&gt;#9: Joe Biden &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;#9: Joe Biden&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; Think before you speak. 
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&lt;br /&gt;He once called &#8220;jobs&#8221; a three-letter word. He urged wheelchair bound Missouri State Senator Chuck Graham to &#8220;stand up.&#8221; He&#8217;s even referred to John McCain both as &#8220;George&#8221; and &#8220;McLain&#8221; on two separate occasions. Vice President Joe Biden has made his fair share of embarrassing speech blunders, earning him a reputation for being gaffe-prone. At times, his carelessness has driven the normally even-tempered President Barack Obama to appear visibly annoyed. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Our VP might be lovable, but he's still a liability. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Everybody makes mistakes here and there, but you &lt;em&gt;don&#8217;t&lt;/em&gt; want to be careless about your remarks or make jokes at the most inappropriate times. Especially when they&#8217;re not funny. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Think before you speak and avoid being known as the &#8220;Joe Biden&#8221; of your workplace.    
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;a href=?page=11&gt;#10: Oprah Winfrey &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;#10: Oprah Winfrey&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; Build a strong personal brand.
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&lt;br /&gt;The talk show host and entrepreneur built a muli-billion dollar empire, thanks largely to her strong personal brand. In addition to an award-winning talk show, she has channeled her fame and fortune into a highly successful magazine and a television network set to launch this year. She ranks #165 on Forbes list of the 400 richest Americans. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Oprah transformed the talk show genre by bringing it into to a more personal, confessional realm. She interviews mega celebrities, experts and average Americans with a story to tell. But she doesn&#8217;t do so objectively. She shares own personal issues, struggles and adventures with her audience. American women have grown to trust her on anything from kitchen appliances to spirituality. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Not bad for a girl who was born into poverty, was allegedly raped at 9 and was pregnant (but miscarried) at 14. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Building a personal brand sets you apart from the competition. And thanks to the &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/3591-the-top-10-websites-for-healthcare-job-seekers-and-professionals"&gt;&lt;b&gt;internet&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, cultivating and promoting your brand is easier than ever.
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;a href=?page=12&gt;#11: Barack Obama &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;#11: Barack Obama&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/2428-how-to-get-a-healthcare-job-without-experience"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Inexperience&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; doesn't mean you shouldn't reach for the top. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Regardless of your politics, there's no question that Barack Obama had less experience than his two challengers&amp;mdash;Hillary Clinton in the primary and John McCain in the general election. In fact, Obama's decision to run for president is something that people in any profession should keep in mind. If you want to get to the top, you can follow the traditional route. Build your experience and gradually work your way up the ladder. You have to content yourself, though, to reaching the highest rung pretty late in life. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Some people have what it takes to rise to the top sooner rather than later. There are three keys to making that move a success. First, think above your pay grade. Even if you are better than anyone else in your current position, you need to think outside of it. Think about the larger organization and ways it could be better. Try to think of big ideas that could change the rules of the game. Next, carpe diem. If you're going to leap frog over pay grades, you have to seize the moment when the opportunity presents itself. Finally, be &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/91"&gt;&lt;b&gt;confident&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; and don't underestimate yourself. 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;a href=?page=13&gt;#12: Angelina Jolie &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;#11: Angelina Jolie&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; Personal &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/3605-jump-start-your-healthcare-career-by-volunteering"&gt;&lt;b&gt;generosity&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; can be more important than &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3550-6-tips-to-get-noticed-in-your-healthcare-job"&gt;&lt;b&gt;professional accomplishment&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;.
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&lt;br /&gt;Angelina Jolie is arguably the most famous actress in the world right now. Why? She's been in so many of the best films of the decade like Sky Captain and the World of Tomorrow, Alexander, and&#8230;oh wait&#8230; 
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&lt;br /&gt;For someone who normally stars in some of Hollywood's worst movies, how is Jolie such a megastar? 
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&lt;br /&gt;She is the quintessential master of personal PR. Jolie's movies are incedental, they are mere backdrop to the brand that is Angelina. Celebrity cum International Relations wonk. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Beauty and the Adopter-of-Disadvantaged-Children. If you can turn your personal brand into such gold, any professional foibles matter a lot less.
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;a href=?page=14&gt;#13: Sarah Palin &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;#13: Sarah Palin&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; Do your homework. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Repbulican? Democrat? Independent? Whichever, you have to admit that Sarah Palin was something unique in American politics. When she was announced as John McCain's running mate she and his campaign quickly regained the momentum they had lost over the week of the Democratic National Convention and pulled even or ahead in most polls. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Then came Palin's immolation in a series of interviews with the major news networks. When Charles Gibson asked her what she thought about the "Bush Doctrine," it was evident she did not know what it was. When Katie Couric asked her for an example of how John McCain had pushed for more regulation of Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac in his 26 years in the Senate, she said she'd have to go look them up and bring them back to her. After their loss, McCain's advisors took to the press to claim that Palin didn't do her homework. 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;a href=?page=15&gt;#14: Maureen Dowd &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;#14: Maureen Dowd&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; Find your schtick. Ride it to the top.
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&lt;br /&gt;Maureen Dowd, an op-ed columnist for the &lt;em&gt;New York Times&lt;/em&gt;, reached journalism's peak in 1999 when she was awarded the Pulitzer Prize for Commentary. How did she become a professional juggernaut? Take the average political knowledge of a Washington D.C. resident, throw in some cutesy nicknames, blend with obvious jokes, send to a personal trainer and you've got a Maureen Dowd column. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Dowd captures the mood of a certain class of people and makes them chuckle at just how right they are. This clearly hasn't served her poorly. Her columns are regularly the most-e-mailed articles on the &lt;em&gt;Times&lt;/em&gt; website and she has commanded an op-ed column at the country's most prestigious paper for 15 years.
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;a href=?page=16&gt;#15: Martha Stewart &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;#15: Martha Stewart&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; A conviction isn't a career killer. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Martha Stewart is easily one of the most recognizable names in America. And with good reason. After graduating from Columbia University, she began her professional career as a successful stock broker in the 1960s. Later, following her move to Westport, Connecticut she started a catering business, restored a farm house, and ran a gourmet food store in 1976. From there, she built her business juggernaut, Martha Stewart Omnimedia and by 2001 was considered one of the most powerful (and richest) women in America. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Then in 2004 things hit the skids. Following a questionable sale of stock in one of her business ventures, she was convicted of lying to investigators and sent to prison for five months. While that could have been the end for her celebrity-based lifestyle business, Stewart re-emerged and recovered quickly. By 2006, her company had returned to profitability and she is one of the most ubiquitious food and lifestyle personalities on television today.
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;a href=?page=17&gt;#16: Dick Cheney &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;#16: Dick Cheney&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; You don't have to be popular. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Dick Cheney left the Vice Presidency with one of the lowest favorable ratings in American history. Throughout the Bush presidency, though, Cheney never cared about and often scoffed at his low approval ratings. He wasn't interested in making friends. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Cheney wanted to reshape the role of the executive branch in American government and in many ways, he was extremely successful, consolidating more and more power in the White House. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Many people didn't like him or his methods, but he stuck single-mindedly to his goals. Even after he lost some of his influence in the later years of his term, the changes he had effected remained in place.
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;a href=?page=18&gt;#17: Donald Trump &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;#17: Donald Trump&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; Even if you're a failure, you can still be a success.
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&lt;br /&gt;Donald Trump is one of the best known business moguls in the world, but his "empire" seems to be a house of cards built on sand. Trump's business ventures have filed for bankrupty not once, not twice, but three times, most recently in February of this year. 
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&lt;br /&gt;So how does Trump continue to maintain his mystique as a formidable tycoon, telling contestants on &lt;em&gt;The Apprentice&lt;/em&gt; , "You're fired!" because they can't cut it? He has several tricks up his sleeves.
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;If you're going to take on debt, don't take on a little, take on a lot. A whole lot. When the "Trump Debt Crisis" first appeared in 1990, &lt;em&gt;Newsweek&lt;/em&gt; reported that "the banks are owed so much by Trump&#8230;that they have no choice but to try to keep him going."&lt;/li&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;While his name may be gaudily splashed across most of his ventures, it doesn't actually appear on the companies' paperwork. The companies he starts file for bankruptcy, not the Donald himself.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol start=3&gt;&lt;li&gt;Fight, fight, fight for your place on Forbes. It has been reported that Trump and his associated badger the people who rank personal wealth so that he appears to have more money than he actually does.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;a href=?page=19&gt;#18: Mark Sanford &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;#18: Mark Sanford&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; If you're caught lying, apologize without qualification.
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&lt;br /&gt;Not long ago, Mark Sanford's name was thrown around as a potential Republican presidential candidate in 2012. Then he went missing on a hiking trip to the Appalachians which actually turned out to be a visit to a long-time mistress in Argentina. The lying and philandering alone shouldn't have necessarily sunk his chances. After all, Bill Clinton did both while he was president and emerged fine politically. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Sanford's problem? Rather than unequivocally admitting to a mistake, promising never to do it again, being contrite and recommitting himself to his wife, he held a series of philosophically and emotionally meandering press conferences where he didn't offer clarity but confusion. 
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&lt;br /&gt;A short apology might not have been able to save him, but it would have offered him at least a fighting chance.
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;a href=?page=20&gt;#19: Ellen Degeneres &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;#19: Ellen Degeneres&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; Be yourself. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Ellen DeGeneres rose to fame as a standup comedian and eventually secured her own sitcom in 1994. While the show did well, DeGeneres was not content. In a speech to the graduating class of Tulane university in 2006, DeGeneres described how hard it was to have to hide her sexual orientation from the public. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Finally, in 1997, she came out on Orpah Winfrey's show and her character on her show followed suit. The coming-out episode garnered the shows highest ratings ever, but then the quickly tailed off and the show went off the air in 1998.  
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&lt;br /&gt;Did being honest with herself and her audience ruin her career? Not in the least. DeGeneres returned to television on a daily basis in 2003 with &lt;em&gt;The Ellen DeGeneres Show&lt;/em&gt;, a day-time talk show that consistently gained in the ratings and won 25 Emmy Awards in its first three seasons. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Now she has both a successful television show and &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3141-ten-tips-for-staying-happy-at-work"&gt;&lt;b&gt;personal happiness&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;.
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;a href=?page=21&gt;#20: J.K. Rowling &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;#20: J.K. Rowling&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lesson:&lt;/strong&gt; Don't ever count yourself out.
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&lt;br /&gt;In 1993, J.K. Rowling was diagnosed as clinically depressed and thought about suicide. 
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&lt;br /&gt;She battled the depression but in 1995 was living on welfare as she worked to complete a teaching certificate and finish her first novel. That novel, as most people now know, would be &lt;em&gt;Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone&lt;/em&gt;. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Rowling summoned her creativity to become one of the richest women in Britain. A mere five years after being on welfare, she was worth hundreds of millions of dollars. 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/3620-7-job-search-time-wasters-and-how-to-avoid-them"&gt;7 Job Search Time Wasters and How to Avoid Them&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/1921-the-10-worst-job-hunting-mistakes-"&gt;The 10 Worst Job-Hunting Mistakes &lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/1896-how-to-revamp-your-resume-"&gt;How to Revamp Your Resume &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Tania Khadder and Zac Frank | AllHealthcare</dc:creator>
      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 14:33:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3798-20-career-lessons-from-celebrities-</link>
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      <title>10 Worst Things to Say to Someone Who Just Got Laid Off</title>
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/table&gt;Someone you know &lt;em&gt;just&lt;/em&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3228-how-to-negotiate-your-severance-package"&gt;&lt;b&gt; lost their job&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;. Yikes. 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;You want to be supportive. You want to help them see the positive side of their misfortune. You want to buy them a drink. And you should! But please, tread carefully. 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;The time directly following a &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3076-laid-off-eight-effective-ways-to-respond"&gt;&lt;b&gt;layoff&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; is a delicate one. Your friend will want your help, but they may not be so receptive to your wise suggestions or burning questions. The fact of the matter is, being &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3096-how-to-avoid-getting-the-axe-from-your-healthcare-job"&gt;&lt;b&gt;laid off&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; sucks. Your comments come from a good place (of course!), but you might be surprised at how they are construed by someone whose wounds are still fresh from getting shown the door. 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;Here are 10 things you shouldn&#8217;t say to someone who has just been laid off. 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=?page=2&gt;First Worst Thing to Say &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;1. "Are you freaked out?"&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Don&#8217;t put ideas into her head! She's probably worried enough as it is. Very few people are truly thrilled to be &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3076-laid-off-eight-effective-ways-to-respond"&gt;&lt;b&gt;laid off&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, and if they are they&#8217;ll probably go out of their way to tell you before you can even get a word in edgewise. 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;To be truly supportive, just be there for your friend to open up to you on her own terms and on her own schedule. Maybe a kind joke or an unrelated anecdote or a question about something innocuous (Weekend plans? Movies they&#8217;ve seen recently) would help lift their spirits.&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=?page=3&gt;#2 Worst Thing to Say &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;2. "Do you know what you did to deserve it?"&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://excelle.monster.com/nfs/excelle/attachment_images/0007/2319/packingup.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;Wow, talk about an insensitive comment. Think about it: what if he really did do something? Do you think he really wants to talk about it? It&#8217;s not like when someone breaks up with your friend you launch into a huge guilt trip about what he might have done or should have done to prevent it. 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;At the same time, many layoffs come out of the blue to people who were great employees and a valuable resource to the company, so there might not even be an answer in the first place. Unless you&#8217;re their direct supervisor, this just isn&#8217;t any of your business.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=?page=4&gt;#3 Worst Thing to Say &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;3. "You&#8217;re not unemployed, you&#8217;re funemployed!"&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://excelle.monster.com/nfs/excelle/attachment_images/0007/2322/funemployed.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;So cute and yet &lt;em&gt;so&lt;/em&gt; out of touch with reality. Sure, unemployment might be fun when you&#8217;re 22 and have no real responsibilities. It&#8217;s quite a different story when you&#8217;re 54, have two kids in college, a &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/finance/articles/2834-mortgages-what-you-need-to-know-in-2009"&gt;&lt;b&gt;mortgage&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; and a chronic health problem. 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;For so many people, being &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/finance/articles/3523-5-easy-ways-to-make-money-even-if-youre-unemployed"&gt;&lt;b&gt;unemployed&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; is not an opportunity to do some volunteer work or self-discovery &#8212; it&#8217;s a very real and very frightening financial, emotional and professional setback. Cute, trendy sayings aren&#8217;t going to change that.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=?page=5&gt;#4 Worst Thing to Say &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;4. "Have you started applying for new jobs yet?"&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://excelle.monster.com/nfs/excelle/attachment_images/0007/2325/jobsearch.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;You&#8217;ve got to give your friends time to breathe after a  &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3096-how-to-avoid-getting-the-axe-from-your-healthcare-job"&gt;&lt;b&gt;layoff&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;. It&#8217;s a really big deal! She&#8217;s probably still reeling from the shock. Many people who have been recently let go from a job need days &#8212; even weeks &#8212; to really deal with what&#8217;s just happened to them. Especially if it was a job they really loved and identified with. 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;Give your friend time to breathe, process, and even grieve about what just happened to them before they&#8217;re ready to make a fresh start and jump back into the &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/3620-7-job-search-time-wasters-and-how-to-avoid-them"&gt;&lt;b&gt;job search&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=?page=6&gt;#5 Worst Thing to Say &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;5. "Have you thought about temping?"&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://excelle.monster.com/nfs/excelle/attachment_images/0007/2328/office.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;This insult is two-fold. If temp work is a little bit low on the career ladder for someone of their &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/2428-how-to-get-a-healthcare-job-without-experience"&gt;&lt;b&gt;experience&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, they&#8217;ll be insulted by your suggestion. And if it isn&#8217;t, chances are they have thought about it already. They&#8217;ve probably tried. And there probably aren&#8217;t any temp jobs available. Your question is just a reminder of how dire the situation really is.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=?page=7&gt;#6 Worst Thing to Say &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;6. "Was it just you? Or did others get laid off too?"&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://excelle.monster.com/nfs/excelle/attachment_images/0007/2331/masslayoff.jpg?1251314750"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt; &lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;This question implies that your friend&#8217;s &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3228-how-to-negotiate-your-severance-package"&gt;&lt;b&gt;layoff&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; is palatable (or not) depending on who else got laid off at the same time. Does it really matter? What if it &lt;em&gt;was&lt;/em&gt; just your friend? Do you really want to remind them that they were the only person at their company who was considered expendable on that particular day? 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes, layoffs happen all at once. Other times, they happen on a rolling basis. Either way, the timing of your friend&#8217;s layoff probably has little to do with their own performance and a lot to do with the company&#8217;s budget and priorities.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=?page=8&gt;#7 Worst Thing to Say &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;7. "Have you filed for unemployment yet?"&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt; &lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;This presumes that your friend is even going to be applying for &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/finance/articles/3237-how-to-apply-for-unemployment-benefits"&gt;&lt;b&gt;unemployment&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; in the first place and that he&#8217;s actually eligible for it. Remember that some people have a hard time admitting that they need outside assistance. It&#8217;s hard enough for some of us to accept that we need help (or god forbid, &#8220;charity&#8221;) in the first place, let alone having to talk about it to other people. 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;If your friend hasn&#8217;t volunteered information about unemployment insurance yet, just don&#8217;t bring up the subject. Better safe than sorry, right?&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=?page=9&gt;#8 Worst Thing to Say &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;8. " I can get you a new job!" [and the job is totally inappropriate]&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt; &lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;While the sentiment is appreciated, you&#8217;re presuming that the person you&#8217;re talking to is totally desperate for a job. A former Director of Marketing probably isn&#8217;t interested in waiting tables, and a &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3030-nursing-psychiatric-and-home-health-aides"&gt;&lt;b&gt;home health aide&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; probably wouldn&#8217;t want to apply for a job in the Human Resources department. 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;While it&#8217;s definitely good to keep an eye out for your friends, don&#8217;t assume they&#8217;ll do just anything for a living. If you want to help, make sure you&#8217;re aware of what your friend wants before you start reaching out to &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/2056-use-your-networking-skills-to-land-your-dream-job"&gt;&lt;b&gt;contacts&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=?page=10&gt;#9 Worst Thing to Say &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;9. "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade!"&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt; &lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;What about when life gives you &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/finance/articles/3000-10-things-you-should-know-about-credit-cards"&gt;&lt;b&gt;credit card debt&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, foreclosure and a few steps back in your career? What should you make then? Lemonade and vodka maybe. 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;It&#8217;s nice of you to try and offer your friend a dose of optimism, but realize that clich&#233; catchphrases may be interpreted as insensitive. It&#8217;s a lot easier to see the silver lining when you&#8217;re still gainfully employed, right? When you&#8217;ve just lost your job, sometimes all you want is a shoulder to cry on. Some situations just aren&#8217;t good, and there&#8217;s no way to spin it.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=?page=11&gt;#10 Worst Thing to Say &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;10. "Everything happens for a reason."&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt; &lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;What if the reason is that their &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3710-13-bosses-and-how-to-make-them-love-you"&gt;&lt;b&gt;boss&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; is a nut job? Or that they are one of the older employees and therefore too expensive to keep on board? Or what if the reason is that they just weren&#8217;t great at their job? 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;To the person being &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3076-laid-off-eight-effective-ways-to-respond"&gt;laid off&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, no reason seems like a very good one &#8212; and right after a layoff, it&#8217;s not easy to adopt a more long term, philosophical approach. Once the layoff has had time to sink in and the layoffee starts taking steps to get back on their feet, they might be able to see the bigger picture. Until then, be sensitive to their grief and understand that the situation is not ideal. End of story.
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Resources:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3592-15-dumbest-ways-to-lose-your-job"&gt;15 Dumbest Ways to Lose Your Job&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3519-10-ways-to-make-yourself-unfireable-"&gt;10 Ways to Make Yourself Unfireable&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3550-6-tips-to-get-noticed-in-your-healthcare-job"&gt;6 Tips to Get Noticed in Your Healthcare Job&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3228-how-to-negotiate-your-severance-package"&gt;How to Negotiate Your Severance Package&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3148-is-healthcare-really-recession-proof"&gt;Is Healthcare Really Recession-Proof?&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;b&gt;Informative Quiz&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/48"&gt;How Secure is Your Job?&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Alice Handley and Tania Khadder | AllHealthcare</dc:creator>
      <pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2009 10:32:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3785-10-worst-things-to-say-to-someone-who-just-got-laid-off</link>
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      <title>Stop Your Emotional Eating and Be Happier!</title>
      <description>&lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3770-stop-your-emotional-eating-and-be-happier"&gt;&lt;img alt="Stop Your Emotional Eating and Be Happier!" src="/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/3976/eatingggg.jpg?1256947462" style="width:387px; float:left; padding: 8px" width="380" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;One late night while working Boston&#8217;s needle exchange van I realized the early stage of drug addiction is no different than the sugar or coffee cycle many of us fall prey to in our daily lives. This particular evening a young man walked into the van, and we talked about his drug use and life in the gay community.  He had just come out about his sexual orientation without any support and used drugs to mask his fears.  &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;As we spoke further, it surfaced that many of his fears were tied to him giving into his every temptation.  He wanted to feel comfortable in his skin but had a certain pleasure tolerance that diminished any positive thoughts about himself. At this point, many of us look to the outside to heal and grow in life instead of looking and loving within ourselves.  What happens at this point when we reach for a heroine needle or the cookie jar?  We reach our pleasure tolerance, or our happiness quota and, the addiction cycle begins.  &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;For many people food is an addiction, just like a drug.  We receive the same cycle of highs, lows, and reasons for cravings. Many of you can relate to the subtlety of sugar cravings in the office setting. When stressed, you open up that drawer of hidden chocolate bars and the cycle begins.  &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Have you had a time in your life when you were eating very healthy and exercising?  You&#8217;d think to yourself, &#8220;I&#8217;ve got this down!&#8221; then out of nowhere you grab a few cookies and weeks later you notice your healthy lifestyle has vanished! This is because the way we eat is the way we live. Our interaction with food is an interesting insight to how we live our lives. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;We&#8217;re all born with a certain amount of happiness, but this is not our comfort zone because we aren&#8217;t always happy or comfortable with our life and ourselves. This has been keeping you from connecting to the love you want, enjoying the relaxing lifestyle you want, realizing your desires and inspiration, or savoring the yummy stimulation from a meal.  &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Guilt is a major quality that has been preventing you from enjoying your meals and life. We feel guilty for indulging in too much food, sex, power, and money. We can experience guilt when we&#8217;re going through change and becoming happier in life.  But you shouldn&#8217;t feel guilty for having it all. It&#8217;s your moral prerogative to have it all and be happy about it. Give those self-conflicting voices about pleasure a rest.  &lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;When you let yourself feel good, you feel better about life and thereby are more open to connecting with yourself and feeling balanced.  Creating a new way of enjoying eating can be intimidating because it&#8217;s new and requires courage and fearless love for yourself.  Remember: change can be scary but it&#8217;s the only way to grow and achieve happiness.  Ask yourself: What would it be like if you got on board with your eating or body changes? How can you celebrate them?  &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Follow these steps for increasing your happiness tolerance and end the cycle of emotional eating!&lt;/b&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Step 1&lt;/b&gt;: Write down the reasons behind your emotional eating. Sometimes, just seeing them on paper makes it easier to get a handle on the problem. Keep a food journal for one week, writing down absolutely everything that you eat, as well as making a note about your mood at that exact time. This exercise will help you target which foods you turn to depending on your different moods. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Step 2&lt;/b&gt;:  Connect with your desires.  Who do you want to be? What do you want in life? What do you enjoy and dislike in your daily life?  Being in tune with your desires helps you understand your true self and optimize life satisfaction. Have you written down your desires?  Be true to what opens your unique, fun, and happy heart. Embodying these desires by writing them down will allow you to connect to and trust yourself.  Next time you think negative body or food thoughts, come back to your desires.  Ask yourself what is your stand-- what will create happiness in your life?&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Step 3&lt;/b&gt;: Make a list of things you are grateful for while experiencing this change in food and body image mentality. Put it up on your fridge and look at it to remind you of all the wonderful things in your life. This will help you stay on track, even though the change might be difficult at first. Remember, there&#8217;s always a light at the end of the tunnel!&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;For a Bonus&lt;/b&gt;: Say YES to something that you would not normally say yes too.  See if you enjoy any activity that you normally would not include in your routine.      &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;More Food and Nutrition Resources&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/H4&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;H4&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3649-what-your-natural-biology-is-saying-about-weight-loss"&gt;What Your Natural Biology Is Saying About Weight Loss&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href=""&gt;Attitude is a Main Predictor of Eating Habits&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3177-how-you-can-eat-healthy-at-work-and-home"&gt;How You Can Eat Healthy at Work and Home&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;&#8226; Informative Quiz&lt;/B&gt;: &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/89"&gt;What&#8217;s Your Nutrition IQ?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nicole Ohebshalom | Radiant Living Wellness</dc:creator>
      <pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 14:16:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3770-stop-your-emotional-eating-and-be-happier</link>
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      <title>10 Worst Time Wasters at Work</title>
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;caption style="font-size:8pt; font-style:italic;" align="bottom"&gt;Time flies when you're wasting it 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/table&gt;These days, no one can afford to &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3592-15-dumbest-ways-to-lose-your-job"&gt;waste time at work&lt;/a&gt;.
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&lt;br /&gt; Thanks to widespread downsizing, workloads are piling up. Unfortunately, extra hours in the day are not.
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&lt;br /&gt;Maximizing your time at work can mean the difference between leaving at a reasonable hour (i.e. holding onto your sanity) and staying late unnecessarily. You&#8217;ve got a life outside work. Don&#8217;t you want to live it? 
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&lt;br /&gt;There are countless ways you waste time on the job. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes, it&#8217;s unavoidable. Other times, it can be overcome with a minor shift in your approach. Either way, the first step to addressing time wasters is to identify them. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Here are the 10 most common time sucks and some tips on how to defeat them. 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;a href=?page=2&gt;Time Waster #1 &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Culprit #1:&lt;/strong&gt; Instant Messaging&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;img src="http://i32.tinypic.com/15zo2fr.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;While instant messaging &lt;em&gt;can&lt;/em&gt; be a useful intra-office tool, its generally informal (and instant!) nature can also make it productivity&#8217;s &lt;em&gt;worst&lt;/em&gt; enemy. How many times has a discussion about something work related quickly degenerated into a half-hour gossip session? And there&#8217;s always someone with a lot less to do who will tempt you into a chat marathon. 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The solution:&lt;/strong&gt; If you can&#8217;t disconnect completely, at least set your status to &#8220;Busy&#8221; for a good portion of the day.  This will help deter frivolous chatter. If someone insists on bothering you with non-work related chit-chat, tell them (politely) that you are in the middle of something and ask if you can pick up the conversation another time (maybe during your lunch break?). Don&#8217;t feel bad about it &#8211; no one will fault you for your silence if you&#8217;ve got work to do.  If they do, you probably don&#8217;t want to be chatting with them anyway.&lt;/div&gt;   
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=3&gt;Time Waster #2 &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Culprit #2:&lt;/strong&gt; Over-Reliance on Email&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;img src="http://i26.tinypic.com/m8in3n.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:40px; padding-right:40px; text-align:justify"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;We&#8217;ve all become addicted to email as a form of communication. It&#8217;s convenient. It's also a great way to keep an electronic trail of your correspondence (helpful if you&#8217;re ever challenged on a decision or occurrence). But a lot of time is wasted on back and forth emails that would be more easily resolved as a verbal conversation.  Don&#8217;t even get me started on the oh-so-common "reply-to-all" debacle. 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The solution:&lt;/strong&gt; If there&#8217;s something that needs to be &lt;em&gt;discussed&lt;/em&gt;, opt for a face-to-face conversation. Is the person you need to speak to on the other coast? Call them. And if you still want a written record, write up a quick email after the conversation outlining where things left off and send to all relevant parties. On the surface it seems like more steps, but it can mean the difference between an hour of work and a two-day back and forth email discussion.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=?page=4&gt;&lt;b&gt;Time Waster #3 &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Culprit #3:&lt;/strong&gt; Meandering Meetings&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;img src="http://i29.tinypic.com/1zg85d0.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&#8220;Meetings about meetings.&#8221; You know the kind &#8211;- you get together for an hour and all you end up with is a list of what should be discussed in yet &lt;em&gt;another&lt;/em&gt; meeting.  Sure, meetings are an essential part of the workplace. But if run poorly, they can be a colossal waste of time.  
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The solution:&lt;/strong&gt; Meetings should have a purpose; a set of tangible goals you want to accomplish. This should be realized by tackling a set agenda, which should be distributed to attendees before the meeting starts.  Stay focused on the task at hand. If there are visual aides, have them set up and ready to go before the group enters the room. Finally, make sure you &lt;em&gt;really need&lt;/em&gt; a meeting: if what you have to say can be just as easily shared in an email to the group, why get people up and away from their work? &lt;/div&gt; 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=?page=5&gt;&lt;b&gt;Time Waster #4 &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Culprit #4:&lt;/strong&gt; Short Gaps &lt;em&gt;Between&lt;/em&gt; Meetings&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;Speaking of meetings, what about those 15-30 minute gaps between them?  What do you ever really accomplish in that time? Usually, very little. Sure, it gives you a bit of time to decompress, but it also takes you in and out of meeting mode for no apparent reason. If you have several meetings a day, that limbo time can amount to a couple hours of waste.
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The solution:&lt;/strong&gt; Schedule your meetings back-to-back if you can; you&#8217;ll knock them out more efficiently. The time in between is better clumped together at some point in the day so it can be used for productive endeavors.&lt;/div&gt; 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=?page=6&gt;&lt;b&gt;Time Waster #5 &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Culprit #5:&lt;/strong&gt; Reacting to Interruptions&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;img src="http://i25.tinypic.com/2e5qjhh.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;You&#8217;re in the middle of something when you get an &#8220;urgent&#8221; email. You reply, only to be accosted by a phone call shortly after. You hang up, only to be faced with yet &lt;em&gt;another&lt;/em&gt; email that demands your response. And on and on. Before you know it, it&#8217;s 4pm and you still haven&#8217;t made a dent in what you&#8217;d started first thing this morning. Sound familiar? The average employee works for just 11 minutes before being distracted. No wonder we&#8217;re struggling to get things done. 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The solution:&lt;/strong&gt; It&#8217;s unavoidable &#8211; the hyper-connected workplace &lt;em&gt;will&lt;/em&gt; throw constant interruptions at you. The trick is to learn how to react to them without taking away from the task at hand. If you&#8217;re busy, let your phone go to voicemail. Set aside three times a day where you manage your inbox. Of course, there &lt;em&gt;are&lt;/em&gt; instances where an email demands an urgent reply. But more often than not, it doesn&#8217;t. Know the difference.&lt;/div&gt; 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=?page=7&gt;&lt;b&gt;Time Waster #6 &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Culprit #6:&lt;/strong&gt; Ineffective Multi-Tasking&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;Everyone likes to think they&#8217;re great at multi-tasking. And maybe you are. But there&#8217;s a limit to how many things you can do at once without taking away from the quality of your work and, ultimately, slowing down the process. Shifting between five different projects at once? You&#8217;re probably wasting your time. 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The solution:&lt;/strong&gt; Prioritize and then break up your day accordingly. It&#8217;s the key to successfully completing any project. Write down everything you hope to achieve and assign a set time to do so based on importance. Don&#8217;t move on to the next task until you&#8217;ve really completed the previous one.  Not only will you do a better job when you&#8217;re focused, you&#8217;ll also force yourself to finish something within the time allotted.&lt;/div&gt; 
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=?page=8&gt;&lt;b&gt;Time Waster #7 &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Culprit #7:&lt;/strong&gt; Disorganized Workspace&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;Your primary workspace might be the top of your desk, your desktop computer or most likely, a combination of the two. Either way, if it&#8217;s messy, you&#8217;ll end up wasting a lot of time looking for things. 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The solution:&lt;/strong&gt; A scattered workspace makes for a scattered mind. De-clutter, and you&#8217;ll manage your work more efficiently. Before you leave the office, clear your desk of cans, cups, food and paperwork. Use that file cabinet for something other than your box of saltines. Recycle paperwork you&#8217;re never going to use. And don&#8217;t add unnecessary items to your files &#8211; if you don&#8217;t &lt;em&gt;need&lt;/em&gt; to print something out, don&#8217;t. Your company&#8217;s shared drive is perfectly capable of storing documents tidily.&lt;/div&gt; 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=?page=9&gt;&lt;b&gt;Time Waster #8 &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Culprit #8:&lt;/strong&gt; Personal Communications&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;img src="http://i26.tinypic.com/25pltw8.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;In the olden days, it was a little harder to get in the way with personal correspondence at work. Today, you can be constantly connected to friends and family without anyone really noticing.  It&#8217;s no longer a question of &#8220;Will I get caught?&#8221; so much as &#8220;How much time am I wasting?&#8221; If you&#8217;re checking Facebook religiously, G-Chatting with friends or responding to personal emails the same way you do professional ones, the answer is: a lot.  
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The solution:&lt;/strong&gt; These days, employers understand that you may spend some time at work doing personal things (after all, you spend so much time there). Leave your personal correspondence for your lunch break.  You can check your various accounts all at once, guilt-free. Be firm with your friends and family about contacting you during work hours &#8211;- if they&#8217;re not reaching out to you between nine and five, you&#8217;ll be a lot less tempted to check in. You&#8217;ll also have a better time overcoming Culprit #5.&lt;/div&gt; 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=?page=10&gt;&lt;b&gt;Time Waster #9 &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Culprit #9:&lt;/strong&gt; Web Surfing &#8220;Breaks&#8221;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;You need to step away from what you&#8217;re working on so you search for reviews of that movie you&#8217;ve been dying to see. Before you know it, you&#8217;ve got six tabs open in your browser. You&#8217;re looking up concert tickets, shoes, today&#8217;s news and the etymology of a words. No need to ask where your afternoon went. Your browser history says it all.   
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The solution:&lt;/strong&gt; Know your limits. If you&#8217;re tempted to look something up, wait until you&#8217;ve at least finished what you&#8217;re working  on. Preferably, leave this type of search for your lunch break or the end of the work day. It&#8217;s just too easy to get sucked in when there&#8217;s endless information at your fingertips.&lt;/div&gt;  
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=?page=11&gt;&lt;b&gt;Time Waster #10 &amp;#8594;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Culprit #10:&lt;/strong&gt; Cigarette/Coffee Breaks&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;Everyone needs to step away from their desk every once in a while. In fact, it&#8217;s been said that taking breaks can often make you more productive. But if you&#8217;re going out for a smoke or a coffee run every half hour (sounds extreme, but not totally unrealistic), you&#8217;re reducing your productivity to the bare minimum by never really getting into the groove of your work. 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The solution:&lt;/strong&gt;  It&#8217;s a good idea to look away from your computer every fifteen minutes or so. But when it comes to breaks outside the office, reserve them to three a day: one mid-morning, one at lunch time, and one in the afternoon. Taking your full lunch break is key. If you&#8217;re out of the office for a solid hour mid-day, you&#8217;ll feel less of a need to step out for smaller breaks. And you&#8217;ll be able to get into the work groove &#8211; and stay there! &#8211; more often.&lt;/div&gt;  
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;More &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training"&gt;Career&lt;/a&gt; Advice:&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3228-how-to-negotiate-your-severance-package"&gt;How to Negotiate Your Severance Package&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2593-how-much-will-a-career-change-cost-you?page=1"&gt;How Much Will a Career Change Cost You?&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/2047-how-to-return-to-work-after-time-off-"&gt;How to Return to Work After Time Off &lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2887-nine-tips-for-starting-out-or-starting-over"&gt;Nine Tips for Starting Out or Starting Over&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3592-15-dumbest-ways-to-lose-your-job"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Just for Fun&lt;/b&gt;: 15 Dumbest Ways to Lose Your Job&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/85"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Informative Quiz&lt;/b&gt;: Will You Have a Successful Healthcare Career Change?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;Find Out&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/48"&gt;How Secure Is Your Job?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Tania Khadder | AllHealthcare</dc:creator>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 11:09:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3760-10-worst-time-wasters-at-work</link>
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      <title>10 Best and Worst Excuses for Missing Work</title>
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&lt;p&gt;We've all been there. It's a beautiful day, and you can't bear the thought of going into work. So you call in with some excuse about feeling ill, but you know in your bones that your boss doesn't buy it.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;The feeling ill excuse is a short-term solution that won't win you any fans at the office - someone else will have to pick up the slack, or you'll miss deadlines. And it won't help your career any. Here are 10 excuses - five smart and five not-so-smart - to help you save face and your sanity.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=2&gt;First Excuse &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;Smart Excuse:  I've Earned It&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/b&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;No one can argue with performance. Come in two or three hours early - or stay late - for a week or two. Then negotiate a day off in advance. "Really work when you're there, so you'll be able to feel good about taking time off," says Andrea Nierenberg, president of The Nierenberg Group, a management consulting and personal marketing practice.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=3&gt;Next Excuse &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;Smart Excuse: I'm Playing Golf with a Client&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/b&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;For this one to work, you've got to have a job that requires you to meet and court current and prospective clients. Neil Simpkins, an account executive at Oxford Communications, has used this one successfully. One note of caution: Meet the client; don't just say you did.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/49"&gt;Quiz: What's YOUR Perfect Excuse?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=4&gt;Next Excuse &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt; This excuse will get you out of work for a half-day or so. Make the appointment first thing in the morning or late in the day, say around 3 p.m. You can leave the office by 2:30 p.m. and get home (hopefully) by 4 p.m. The shortened day will help you recharge, especially if you schedule it on a Friday afternoon.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=5&gt;Next Excuse &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt; Before you dismiss this one, think about it: Who can argue? "It's such an embarrassing topic that nobody will ever challenge it," says Jennifer Newman, vice president of Lippe Taylor Public Relations. She has used this excuse - and had it used on her - successfully. "It's one of those things that men honestly have no clue about, and women can sympathize with." One important point: Don't use this one if you're a man. It'll never work.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=6&gt;Next Excuse &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt; This is an excellent way to give yourself a break if your company allows it. Although you'll need to do some work, you can generally get away with a shortened day. And you'll eliminate your commuting time.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/49"&gt;Quiz: What's YOUR Perfect Excuse?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=7&gt;Next Excuse &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt; Don't ever use this excuse if it's not true. Your employer will lose all trust in you. "I had an employee whose mother died - twice," says David Wear, a Virginia PR executive. "He also had the misfortune of losing all his grandparents - 12 of them - during a two-year period."&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=8&gt;Next Excuse &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt; When she was a manager at IBM, Marilynn Mobley heard it all. This one still makes her laugh: The employee apparently took Tylenol 3 with codeine instead of a vitamin, because the bottles looked alike.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=9&gt;Next Excuse &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt; This is another one that Mobley didn't buy. An employee said that a power failure was preventing him from opening his power-operated garage door. "I reminded him that there's a pull chain on it for just such cases," she says.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/49"&gt;Quiz: What's YOUR Perfect Excuse?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=10&gt;Next Excuse &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt; Mary Dale Walters, a communications specialist at CCH Inc., couldn't believe this one. A former employee needed an entire day to figure out where she had to go to vote in the 1996 presidential election.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=11&gt;Next Excuse &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt; This one is so vague that it rarely works. It could mean anything from fatigue to an appointment with your hairdresser, and your boss knows it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;Br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Takeaway&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;Don't lie, no matter which excuse you use. "I'm not a believer in playing hooky, because it always comes back to you," Nierenberg says. "Don't lie to your boss, your supervisor or your clients. You're guaranteed they will be the ones you'll run into while you're walking down the street in your jeans."
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.adminsecret.com/nfs/adminsecret/attachment_images/0001/9437/perfectexcusemain_max200w.jpg?1230666156" align="right" style="float:left;margin:0 10px 0 0;"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/49"&gt;Quiz: What's YOUR Perfect Excuse?&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;i&gt;What's the best (or worst) excuse you've used to get out of work? Comment below!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Work-Life Balance Resources&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/u&gt;:&lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3671-22-affordable-ways-to-de-stress"&gt;22 Affordable Ways to De-stress&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2008-6-ways-healthcare-workers-can-beat-burn-out-"&gt;6 Ways Healthcare Workers Can Beat Burn-Out &lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2486-stress-management-tips-for-healthcare-workers"&gt;Stress-Management Tips for Healthcare Workers&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3078-top-10-tips-to-balance-worklife-in-2009"&gt;Top 10 Tips to Balance Work/Life&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3141-ten-tips-for-staying-happy-at-work"&gt;Ten Tips for Staying Happy at Work&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">By Michele Marrinan, Monster Contributing Writer</dc:creator>
      <pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2009 12:37:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3753-10-best-and-worst-excuses-for-missing-work</link>
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/table&gt; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/list?article_search[category_id]=457-nursing"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Nurses&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; hear it all: The good, the bad, and the (very, very!) ugly. From &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2747-difficult-patients-why-theyre-that-way-and-how-to-handle-them"&gt;pushy patients&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; to &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3457-how-nurses-can-detect-an-unhealthy-work-environment"&gt;&lt;b&gt;bossy doctors&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, nurses handle it all with grace. But there are some things that can get under the most tolerant nurse&#8217;s skin.
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&lt;br /&gt;AllHealthcare staff members talked to &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/67"&gt;&lt;b&gt;healthcare professionals&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, one another and (of course!) &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/list?article_search[category_id]=457-nursing"&gt;&lt;b&gt;nurses&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; to find out what phrases or questions were most irritating. Ever felt like strangling someone with your stethoscope? Then you probably heard one of these 10 things. 
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;p style="font-weight:bold; font-size:16pt; color:red;"&gt;10. "Helloooooo, Nurse!"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Okay. We get it. We've all seen the cartoons with the buxom nurse who is swooned over by a wolf, or a man, or an &lt;a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0105941/" target="_blank"&gt;Animaniacs&lt;/a&gt; character. It wasn't funny or original the first dozen times you heard it, and it certainly hasn't made a positive impact 10 years later.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;You're not an object to be fawned over. You're saving lives here! You don't have time to be ogled. Luckily, younger generations have probably never heard the phrase, so you can hope that it will be phased out soon.&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;b&gt;Fun Quiz&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/36"&gt;Who's Your Inner Nurse?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;p style="font-weight:bold; font-size:16pt; color:red;"&gt;9. "Do You Only Date Doctors?"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Puh-lease. Anyone who has actually spent any time around a doctor knows that &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/69"&gt;&lt;b&gt;dating one&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; is next to impossible. &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2495-survive-the-night-shift-in-healthcare"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Crazy hours&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. Big egos. &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3671-22-affordable-ways-to-de-stress"&gt;Constant stress&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. Who wants to put up with that? Plus, everyone knows you shouldn't "dip your pen in the company ink." Spending 12-plus hours with someone can make you form an incredibly close bond, but that doesn't mean your co-workers will make the best &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/69"&gt;&lt;b&gt;significant others&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/div&gt; 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Anyone who asks a &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/list?article_search[category_id]=457-nursing"&gt;&lt;b&gt;nurse&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; this is &lt;em&gt;clearly&lt;/em&gt; watching too much &lt;em&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/87"&gt;Grey's Anatomy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/em&gt; and needs their head examined.&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;b&gt;Fun Quiz&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/69"&gt;The Office Romance Quiz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;p style="font-weight:bold; font-size:16pt; color:red;"&gt;8. "C'mon. Nursing is Just Like on TV!"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;What were we just saying about people who watch too much &lt;em&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/87"&gt;Grey's Anatomy&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;? While medical shows are a great form of entertainment - tons of &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/list?article_search[category_id]=457-nursing"&gt;&lt;b&gt;nurses&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; watch them, too - that doesn't mean they are an accurate portrayal of when hospital life is like. Nursing organizations have even taken up arms against nurse-centered shows like &lt;em&gt;Nurse Jackie&lt;/em&gt; and &lt;em&gt;HawthoRNe&lt;/em&gt;. Prior to these shows, nurses were almost never the focus of a medical TV show. Nurses were merely in the background emptying bedpans or taking orders.&lt;/div&gt; 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;But we know the truth. &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/list?article_search[category_id]=457-nursing"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Nurses&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; are the foundation of any good health system. They don't have time to be the center of attention because they are always cleaning up a (metaphorical) mess a doctor has left!&lt;/div&gt; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;b&gt;Fun Quiz&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/36"&gt;Who's Your Inner Nurse?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;p style="font-weight:bold; font-size:16pt; color:red;"&gt;7. "Nurses Take Orders From Doctors"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/list?article_search[category_id]=457-nursing"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Nurses&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; work alongside other nurses. They report to other nurses. They belong to organizations and unions &lt;em&gt;just for nurses&lt;/em&gt;. Edie Falco of &lt;em&gt;Nurse Jackie&lt;/em&gt; put it perfectly when she said "Doctors diagnose. Nurses save lives." When it comes down to it, nurses are the ones in the trenches. Because they spend the most time with patients, they can be counted on to know when something is wrong or if a patient has made any progress.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Doctors and &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/list?article_search[category_id]=457-nursing"&gt;nurses&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; may work side-by-side, but nurses are responsible for nurses.&lt;/div&gt; 
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;p style="font-weight:bold; font-size:16pt; color:red;"&gt;6. "What's Taking So Long?!"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Patients depend on &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/list?article_search[category_id]=457-nursing"&gt;&lt;b&gt;nurses&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; to keep their &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/67"&gt;healthcare experience&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; a positive one. But we all know that &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3363-lessons-from-the-code"&gt;&lt;b&gt;things can get hectic&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; in the medical field. Emergencies and unpredictable accidents can happen on a daily basis which means patients may not always be seen when they thought they would. Having a &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2747-difficult-patients-why-theyre-that-way-and-how-to-handle-them"&gt;&lt;b&gt;patient gripe at you&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; and ask "What's taking so long?!" can be irritating, especially if you are trying your hardest to make sure everyone is taken care of. It's in stressful situations like this that it's sometimes easier to snap instead of calmly explain that you are doing your best.&lt;/div&gt; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;b&gt;Fun Quiz&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/36"&gt;Who's Your Inner Nurse?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;p style="font-weight:bold; font-size:16pt; color:red;"&gt;5. "So...You Can Score Me Some Meds, Right?"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Shows like &lt;em&gt;Nurse Jackie&lt;/em&gt; and &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/87"&gt;&lt;b&gt;House, MD&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; make it seems like any &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/list?article_search[category_id]=457-nursing"&gt;&lt;b&gt;nurse&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; can walk right into a pharmacy and get whatever he/she wants. We know that's totally not true, but those who aren't in the medical field often believe it. Many nurses have friends or family members who ask them to score some meds they don't have a prescription for - without even considering the fact that the &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2637-10-ways-to-lose-your-healthcare-license"&gt;&lt;b&gt;nurse could lose her/his license!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt; 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Most &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/list?article_search[category_id]=457-nursing"&gt;nurses&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; can laugh this off, but, for others, it's a real problem. To banish this stereotype (and this request!), there needs to be continual education of consumers.&lt;/div&gt; 
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;p style="font-weight:bold; font-size:16pt; color:red;"&gt;4. "What Does a Nurse Do?"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Coming from a 5th grader who is doing a report on what she wants to be when she grows up, this question is sweet. Coming from a snarky patient, this question is almost intolerable. &lt;em&gt;What &lt;strong&gt;doesn't&lt;/strong&gt; a nurse do?&lt;/em&gt; Let's see... &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/list?article_search[category_id]=457-nursing"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Nurses&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; care for patients, chart, memorize and administer medication, write care plans, take direction, give direction, handle emergencies, handle stress, handle "dirty jobs" doctors don't want to do...&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;The list goes on and on.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;b&gt;Fun Quiz&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/36"&gt;Who's Your Inner Nurse?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;p style="font-weight:bold; font-size:16pt; color:red;"&gt;3. "I'm &lt;em&gt;Just&lt;/em&gt; a Nurse"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/list?article_search[category_id]=457-nursing"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Just a nurse?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; No such thing! I'm sure you've heard a fellow nurse say something along these lines. Doesn't it make you crazy?! Nurses are the backbone of any successful healthcare facility, so stand up and be proud!&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;Similarly, you might hear &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3040-career-guide-licensed-practical-licensed-vocational-nurses"&gt;&lt;b&gt;"I'm just an LPN&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;." Well, LPNs are nurses, too! (And don't you forget it!)&lt;/div&gt; 
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;p style="font-weight:bold; font-size:16pt; color:red;"&gt;2. "Anyone Can Be a Nurse"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;What?! &lt;em&gt;Anyone&lt;/em&gt; can deal with juggling 20-person patient loads, keeping track of dozens of medications, handling emergencies with grace, and charting it all correctly? (And more!) Yeah, right. &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/list?article_search[category_id]=457-nursing"&gt;Nursing&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; is not for everyone, which is why not everyone is a nurse. Nurses have a special set of qualities&lt;/a&gt; that set them apart from everyone else.&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Anyone&lt;/strong&gt; can be a nurse? I'd like to see them try.&lt;/div&gt; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;b&gt;Fun Quiz&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/36"&gt;Who's Your Inner Nurse?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;p style="font-weight:bold; font-size:16pt; color:red;"&gt;1. "Why Didn't You Become a Doctor?"&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;This utterly annoying and disrespectful question comes in a variety of forms: "Why didn't you become a doctor?" "Why don't you want to be a doctor?" "Did med school sound too hard?" No matter the variance, the underlying insult is the same: Doctors are better than nurses. &lt;em&gt;Not true!&lt;/em&gt; Let's see a doctor take on everything a &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/list?article_search[category_id]=457-nursing"&gt;&lt;b&gt;nurse&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; handles with ease.&lt;/div&gt; 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;You know what they say&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;b&gt;Behind every good doctor is a better nurse!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;strong&gt;More Resources&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/u&gt;:
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3715-8-things-to-never-say-to-a-patient"&gt;8 Things to Never Say to a Patient&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2698-tips-for-effective-patient-provider-communication"&gt;Tips for Effective Patient-Provider Communication&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2747-difficult-patients-why-theyre-that-way-and-how-to-handle-them"&gt;Difficult Patients: Why They're That Way and How to Handle Them&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2008-6-ways-healthcare-workers-can-beat-burn-out-"&gt;6 Ways Healthcare Workers Can Beat Burn-Out &lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3141-ten-tips-for-staying-happy-at-work"&gt;Ten Tips for Staying Happy at Work&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2631--10-small-ways-to-gain-respect-as-a-leader"&gt;10 Small Ways to Gain Respect as a Leader&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;b&gt;Fun Quiz&lt;/b&gt;:&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/67"&gt; What Makes You an Amazing Healthcare Professional?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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      <pubDate>Mon, 03 Aug 2009 11:36:00 -0700</pubDate>
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      <title>8 Things to Never Say to a Patient</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/2690/intro.jpg" align="right" style="float:left;margin:0 10px 0 0;"&gt;You don&#8217;t get to choose your patients. So your relationship with them can range anywhere from &#8220;match made in heaven&#8221; to &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2747-difficult-patients-why-theyre-that-way-and-how-to-handle-them"&gt;&#8220;your worst nightmare.&#8221;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Any appointment can be a potentially difficult situation, mainly because when patients come to see you, they&#8217;re probably already anxious. They may be concerned about what&#8217;s ailing them, be uncomfortable with the sterile atmosphere, or have a general distrust of &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/67"&gt;medical practitioners&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Regardless, proper patient care requires utmost clinical professionalism and &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2698-tips-for-effective-patient-provider-communication"&gt;good communication&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;But &#8220;good communication&#8221; doesn&#8217;t necessarily mean &#8220;tell all.&#8221; While&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2698-tips-for-effective-patient-provider-communication"&gt; transparency is important&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, there are certain phrases healthcare professionals should never say to their patients. Ever. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;To help you keep your patients at ease, AllHealthcare came up with 8 things you should never say to them. We&#8217;ll also offer suggestions for what to say instead. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;Next Page: &lt;A href="?page=2"&gt;#1 &#8220;This won&#8217;t hurt at all.&#8221; &gt;&gt; &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;1. &#8220;This won&#8217;t hurt at all.&#8221;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/2699/1-wonthurt.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;As a trained &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/67"&gt;&lt;b&gt;healthcare professional&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, you of course want to put your &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2698-tips-for-effective-patient-provider-communication"&gt;patient at ease&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; and avoid inflicting any unnecessary pain. But promising no pain is usually an outright lie and a bad habit of practice. The reality is that most procedures &lt;i&gt;do&lt;/i&gt; hurt or at least cause some discomfort, so it&#8217;s important for you to be upfront and honest with your patients if you want to build a &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2698-tips-for-effective-patient-provider-communication"&gt;good rapport&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; with them. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Instead of falsely reassuring your patient, try saying something more straightforward, like &#8220;This will hurt a little, but don&#8217;t worry, I&#8217;ll try to do it as quickly as possible&#8221; or &#8220;This might be a bit uncomfortable, but it&#8217;ll be over before you know it.&#8221; Your patient will appreciate your sincerity. &lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;Though being truthful with your patients is imperative, you also want to convey the utmost professionalism and the impression that they are receiving the best care possible. No patient likes to hear their &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/33"&gt;records&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; are missing, especially if they&#8217;re already in a physically vulnerable or painful situation. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;This type of information is kept best to yourself and your staff, particularly because your patient has nothing to do with their missing records. Figure out where they went as quickly as possible and get on with the procedure, otherwise, you&#8217;re going to needlessly stress out your patient over a silly and easily preventable administrative hiccup. &lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;3. &#8220;Whoops!&#8221;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/2700/3-whoops.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;You always want to keep in mind how psychologically and physically vulnerable patients feel when they visit you for healthcare services. It&#8217;s a sterile environment, they&#8217;ve been anxious about their symptoms, and they may not understand everything that&#8217;s going on both medically and administratively amongst you and your staff. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;That&#8217;s why you want to avoid any exclamations or sudden disruptions in your behavior or speech. Instead of immediately reacting to something that went wrong, wait until the end of the procedure to tell your patient what went wrong as eloquently and professionally as possible.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;Next Page: &lt;A href="?page=5"&gt;#4 &#8220;I completely understand what you&#8217;re going through.&#8221; &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;4. &#8220;I completely understand what you&#8217;re going through.&#8221;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/2694/4-understand.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;Unless you&#8217;ve been in the &lt;i&gt;exact&lt;/i&gt; same position as your patient &#8211; and let&#8217;s be honest, there&#8217;s no chance of that happening &#8211; you don&#8217;t understand what he/she is going through. You might have had a family member who battled breast cancer, but that doesn&#8217;t mean your experience is anything like that of your patient&#8217;s. What&#8217;s more, some patients don&#8217;t want to know how you are personally relating to them at this moment - they want you to help them heal. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Some patients respond well to &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/73"&gt;personal anecdotes&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, but wait until you are more familiar with them and their diagnosis before you launch into your story about breaking your leg when you were 15. 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;b&gt;Fun Quiz&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/73"&gt;How Empathetic Are You?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;Next Page: &lt;A href="?page=6"&gt;#5 &#8220;We&#8217;re very busy. Please wait.&#8221; &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;5. &#8220;We&#8217;re very busy. Please wait.&#8221;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/2695/5-busy.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;Whether it&#8217;s a &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3363-lessons-from-the-code"&gt;busy ER&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; or a peaceful &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/84"&gt;pharmacy department&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, one of the most frustrating things a patient can here is &#8220;We&#8217;re very busy. Please wait.&#8221; Of course, patients don&#8217;t always understand everything that is going on behind the scenes, but their irritation is still warranted. If you can, try to give patients a maximum number of minutes they could be waiting. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Trying to brush off a patient&#8217;s aggravation by saying you&#8217;re busy only makes things worse. Apologize and make your best attempt to &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2698-tips-for-effective-patient-provider-communication"&gt; smooth things over&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; once the patient is able to be seen. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;Next Page: &lt;A href="?page=7"&gt;#6 &#8220;Would you look at that?!&#8221; &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;6. &#8220;Would you look at that?!&#8221;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/2696/6-lookatthat.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Any&lt;/i&gt; exclamation of shock or awe is a major no-no in nursing. You may run into a patient with an injury or symptom you&#8217;ve never even heard about, but refrain from actually telling them that. Patients are putting their lives in your hands and they want to know (or at least think!) that you&#8217;ve been around the block and back. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;Next Page: &lt;A href="?page=8"&gt;#7 &#8220;It could be worse.&#8221; &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;7. &#8220;It could be worse.&#8221;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/2697/7-couldbeworse.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;Of course it could be worse, the patient knows that! Whether they have the common cold or a terminal illness, they aren&#8217;t likely to be focusing on how much worse things could get. Instead, patients are worried about the diagnosis, the healing process, the cost of care, if they can still work and an assortment of those fears.  Plus, &lt;i&gt;it could get worse&lt;/i&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;Next Page: &lt;A href="?page=9"&gt;#8 &#8220;I doubt it&#8217;s anything serious.&#8221; &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;8. &#8220;I doubt it&#8217;s anything serious.&#8221;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/2698/8-nothingserious.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;You might &lt;i&gt;think&lt;/i&gt; you&#8217;re quelling any fears, but &lt;i&gt;what if you&#8217;re wrong&lt;/i&gt;? Sure, you have tons of medical knowledge and probably see terrible injuries every day, but the one thing you can&#8217;t do is predict the future. &lt;i&gt;Will that wound become infected? Will that benign mass turn malignant?&lt;/i&gt; &lt;strong&gt;You never know&lt;/strong&gt;. And while 9 out of 10 times you might be right, that one mistake can come back to haunt you. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Instead of trying to comfort a patient by brushing off their fears, &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2698-tips-for-effective-patient-provider-communication"&gt;&lt;b&gt;be honest about their diagnosis&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; and the amazing level of care they will receive in your facility. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;Bonus&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3674-10-things-to-never-say-to-a-nurse"&gt;10 Things to NEVER Say to a Nurse&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;u&gt;More Resources&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;:
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2747-difficult-patients-why-theyre-that-way-and-how-to-handle-them"&gt;Difficult Patients: Why They're That Way and How to Handle Them&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2008-6-ways-healthcare-workers-can-beat-burn-out-"&gt;6 Ways Healthcare Workers Can Beat Burn-Out &lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3141-ten-tips-for-staying-happy-at-work"&gt;Ten Tips for Staying Happy at Work&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2631--10-small-ways-to-gain-respect-as-a-leader"&gt;10 Small Ways to Gain Respect as a Leader&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;b&gt;Fun Quiz&lt;/b&gt;:&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/67"&gt; What Makes You an Amazing Healthcare Professional?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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      <dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nina Kim, Georgia Price | AllHealthcare</dc:creator>
      <pubDate>Mon, 03 Aug 2009 11:10:00 -0700</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3715-8-things-to-never-say-to-a-patient</link>
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      <title>13 Bosses and How to Make Them Love You</title>
      <description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;Along with paychecks, deadlines, and overtime, bosses are one of the things you just can&#8217;t avoid in the workplace. But how to identify these strange characters &lt;i&gt;and&lt;/i&gt; deal with them? Don&#8217;t go it alone &#8212; it&#8217;s a jungle out there. We show you how!&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;A href="?page=2"&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.adminsecret.com/nfs/adminsecret/attachment_images/0003/8501/bosses.jpg"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Robot&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.adminsecret.com/nfs/adminsecret/attachment_images/0003/8482/iStock_000001018863XSmall.jpg" align="right" style="float:left;margin:0 10px 0 0;"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Distinguishing characteristics:&lt;/b&gt; An empty work space, no family pictures.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;What they do:&lt;/b&gt; All business, all the time: That&#8217;s The Robot. We&#8217;re not saying she&#8217;s not human, but we&#8217;ve definitely got our doubts on the matter sometimes. The sworn enemy of fun, levity, and emotion, The Robot would rather you just get to work. At all times. While it can be nice to have someone driving you to do your best, it would be nice to feel a little bit of emotional connection from time to time, right?&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;How to make her love you:&lt;/b&gt; It may not sound like a lot of fun, but you&#8217;ll probably have to conceal your own feelings and buckle down to The Robot&#8217;s schedule. On the up side, she can teach you discipline and efficiency.  Try making allies of your coworkers. They&#8217;re probably as frustrated as you are! Inside jokes and friendly chit-chat can make the day seem brighter.&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Softy&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/2470/softy_dr.jpg" align="right" style="float:left;margin:0 10px 0 0;"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Distinguishing characteristics:&lt;/b&gt; Second chances.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;What they do:&lt;/b&gt; They think they&#8217;re making things easier on their employees, but in the long run The Softy&#8217;s kid-glove approach to management just makes it harder for great workers to succeed and easier for slackers to stick around. Being a boss involves making difficult decisions sometimes, especially when it comes to employees, but The Softy doesn&#8217;t seem to realize this.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;How to make her love you:&lt;/b&gt; The worst thing to do is hurt The Softy&#8217;s feelings, so try changing things up by commending them on his toughest calls, however rare. A little positive reinforcement can go a long way when The Softy learns that being the bad cop doesn&#8217;t have to be the worst job in the world.&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Weasel&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Distinguishing characteristics:&lt;/b&gt; Empty promises&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;What they do:&lt;/b&gt; Promising one thing but delivering another, The Weasel will say anything &#8212; and we do mean &lt;i&gt;anything&lt;/i&gt; &#8212; to get what she wants out of you. A raise? A promotion? Some time off? Sure, you&#8217;ll get what you&#8217;ve been dreaming about eventually if you take on extra work or a hellish new project. Or so she says, but we wouldn&#8217;t recommend holding your breath for The Weasel to actually deliver. Why should she? You&#8217;re already doing the extra work for free.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;How to make her love you:&lt;/b&gt; Completing all the grunt work will get you great distances with The Weasel, but just remember to trust nothing The Weasel says, ever. Or, at very least, get it in writing and double-check with whomever The Weasel answers to in upper management. A paper trail will be your best defense against lies and false promises. Maybe you&#8217;ll actually &lt;a href"http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2921-healthcare-professionals-guide-to-getting-a-promotion"&gt;get that promotion&lt;/a&gt;!&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Mystery&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.adminsecret.com/nfs/adminsecret/attachment_images/0003/8486/iStock_000008897738XSmall.jpg" align="right" style="float:left;margin:0 10px 0 0;"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Distinguishing characteristics:&lt;/b&gt; Closed doors, Out Of Office messages.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;What they do:&lt;/b&gt; Who knows? The Mystery is an expert at the arts of subterfuge, denial, and &#8230; whatever it is he does. Either he&#8217;s in the operating room or in a locked-door meeting or plotting world domination all day or &#8230; something. Whatever it is, you&#8217;re left to your own devices to figure things out, minus any guidance at all. Too bad you&#8217;ll still be on the hook if things go wrong. The Mystery will be gone when it comes down to it.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;How to make him love you:&lt;/b&gt; Wait it out and give him space. If you stay patient (and we mean really patient) you may be able, like a persevering biologist in the jungle observing shy animals, to learn a little bit more about The Mystery&#8217;s habits.&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Viper&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Distinguishing characteristics:&lt;/b&gt; Backhanded compliments, fake smiles.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;What they do:&lt;/b&gt; Does The Viper wake up on the wrong side of the bed every single morning? It sure seems like it. From snippy comments about personal matters (&#8220;Are you pregnant? Oh, it just seemed like you were gaining weight.&#8221;) to undermining your efforts at work (&#8220;So you&#8217;re just learning the procedures, right?&#8221;), The Viper has a real talent for making you feel bad about yourself. No matter how thick your skin is, it&#8217;s hard not to let her get to you.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;How to make her love you:&lt;/b&gt; We&#8217;re not actually certain that the Viper is capable of loving an employee, so it&#8217;s probably best to just stay a good distance away from her.  Keep feelings to yourself, and share as little information about your life as possible, all the while being extremely pleasant. The Viper can&#8217;t hurt you if she doesn&#8217;t know where you&#8217;re sensitive.  &lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Buddy&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.adminsecret.com/nfs/adminsecret/attachment_images/0003/8488/iStock_000003013645XSmall.jpg" align="right" style="float:left;margin:0 10px 0 0;"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Distinguishing characteristics:&lt;/b&gt; Baseball caps, high-fives&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;What they do:&lt;/b&gt; The Buddy wants to be your friend, not your boss. Too bad for him you&#8217;ve already got friends and wouldn&#8217;t want to hang with him anyway. From &#8220;happy&#8221; hours that seem more like a punishment to unfunny jokes that you&#8217;ve just got to laugh at (or else!) The Buddy really has a way of making fun into a chore. And don&#8217;t get us started on his habit of trying to start questionable relationships with subordinates. It&#8217;s just painful to watch.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;How to make him love you:&lt;/b&gt; Laugh at his funnier jokes, but don&#8217;t stoop to laughing at &lt;i&gt;every&lt;/i&gt; joke &#8211; being a suck-up isn&#8217;t a great way to maintain your dignity.  Say no thanks to all the invitations you can, and keep your own interactions with The Buddy on an extremely professional level &#8211; you&#8217;ll be helping him in the long run, and he&#8217;ll respect you for it. Protect yourself with a thick layer of decorum and common sense because he sure isn&#8217;t going to do it for you.&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Miracle&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/2472/miracle_dr.jpg" align="right" style="float:left;margin:0 10px 0 0;"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Distinguishing characteristics:&lt;/b&gt; A work space that looks like yours, encouraging emails&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;What they do:&lt;/b&gt; Fun, supportive, capable, and inspiring, The Miracle is truly an employee&#8217;s dream come true. She does what she says, always follows up, and usually can push you to do your best in a way that makes the hardest work seem like play. If you&#8217;re working for The Miracle you&#8217;ll know it, from the smile on your face at the end of the day to your rewarding paycheck at the end of the week. Just try not to brag too much!&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;How to make her love you:&lt;/b&gt; Work your butt off and thank your lucky stars, since The Miracle doesn&#8217;t come along very often. Use this great opportunity to really see how far you can go, and at the end of The Miracle&#8217;s tenure, make sure you get a letter of reference!&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Monster&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/2473/monster_dr.jpg" align="right" style="float:left;margin:0 10px 0 0;"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Distinguishing characteristics:&lt;/b&gt; Thrown medical equipment, restraining orders&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;What they do:&lt;/b&gt; The question is more &#8220;What don&#8217;t they do?&#8221; The Monster lives to make your own life hell, and he&#8217;s good at it. From screaming at you in front of patients to lying about your results to engaging in borderline criminal harassment, The Monster repeatedly demonstrates that he has no pity, human decency, or shame. He&#8217;s the worst boss around, hands down, and we&#8217;re sorry for anyone who has to deal with him.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;How to make him love you:&lt;/b&gt; Unfortunately, with this one you just have to run. Get out. There&#8217;s no hope for improvement when you work for someone who has no scruples at all.&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Number Cruncher&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src="http://www.adminsecret.com/nfs/adminsecret/attachment_images/0003/8492/iStock_000004522248XSmall.jpg" align="right" style="float:left;margin:0 10px 0 0;"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Distinguishing characteristics:&lt;/b&gt; Incredible Excel skills, a calculator watch&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;What they do:&lt;/b&gt; The Number Cruncher&#8217;s best quality is her ability to break things down into measurable statistics &#8212; and sometimes, that means the actual employees, too.  The Number Cruncher can only read math, and if your performance appears to be declining on paper rest assured you will get a lecture, even if you&#8217;ve been working as hard as you can.  Ever feel like you are &#8220;just a number?&#8221;  We&#8217;re here to confirm that you definitely are.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;How to make her love you:&lt;/b&gt; Give her something she can understand: Numbers.  Track your successes (&lt;i&gt;and&lt;/i&gt; your failures) with painstaking detail and fanatical devotion.  Even if it&#8217;s a chore in the immediate future, your data mining will pay off and you will have something on paper that proves you&#8217;ve been working hard, even if your efforts haven&#8217;t been working.  Who knows, her approach might teach you something!&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Innovator&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Distinguishing characteristics:&lt;/b&gt; Brainstorming sessions, expensive toys, subscription to Entrepreneur magazine&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;What they do:&lt;/b&gt; The Innovator&#8217;s head is full of big ideas, and he wastes no time dreaming them up and then making sure they actually come true.  Great for business, but it usually means you get no life outside of work because you&#8217;re the one actually making his dream come to life.  The pros?  This boss can be incredibly charismatic and inspiring, and truly cares about the work.  The cons?  Sometimes it seems like the &lt;i&gt;only&lt;/i&gt; thing this boss cares about is work. Hope that&#8217;s all you care about, too!&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;How to make him love you:&lt;/b&gt; Work hard and show commitment, but keep your sense of self outside of work.  Remind the boss that the outside world does exist:  Ask The Innovator about his weekend, his children (if he has any, which is a total mystery) about any hobby he has outside work.  After you&#8217;re done chitchatting, give your all and The Innovator will respect your work and hopefully, your own need for work-life balance.&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Distinguishing characteristics:&lt;/b&gt; The CEO&#8217;s wardrobe, car, and haircut.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;What they do:&lt;/b&gt; In the old days, a tuft hunter was a nobleman&#8217;s parasite, one who tried to curry favor with the rich and powerful in order to gain favor or influence.  The Tuft Hunter as a boss, however, is always looking for her own next promotion.  Does that mean she&#8217;ll create an opening for you once she makes it up that ladder &#8212; or are you merely a rung on her own to be stepped on? That&#8217;s something only The Tuft Hunter knows. You&#8217;ll probably find out too late.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;How to make her love you:&lt;/b&gt; Do everything in your power to make The Tuft Hunter look good, and you&#8217;ll be one step closer to a &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2921-healthcare-professionals-guide-to-getting-a-promotion"&gt;promotion of your very own&lt;/a&gt;.  Watch her back and tell her every bit of news that you come across from upper management and you&#8217;ll earn her respect and maybe even her loyalty &#8212; if she has any.&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Distinguishing characteristics:&lt;/b&gt; Terrible computer skills, degree in law &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;What they do:&lt;/b&gt; If you&#8217;ve worked for someone who explained how to turn your computer on or how to change the toner on the printer, you&#8217;ve experienced The Patronizer. The Patronizer makes sure you know exactly how much time and effort it takes for him just to grace you with his presence every morning. He leaves you to your own devices mostly, but is sure to micromanage the simplest and most mundane tasks whenever he gets the opportunity.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;How to make him love you:&lt;/b&gt; Keep your eye on the ball, whether it&#8217;s getting better at your job or getting a foot out the door. If you feel you are being made to look stupid, you can interrupt The Patronizer mid-sentence during one of his boring lectures by saying, &#8220;I already know how to do that, but I am interested what you think about &#8230;&#8221;  If the condescending behavior just doesn&#8217;t stop, or if he&#8217;s being outright rude, it&#8217;s important to tell The Patronizer to knock it off.  The Patronizer believes you're beneath him, and when you show him you're not, you'll gain his respect. &lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Nitpicker&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Distinguishing characteristics:&lt;/b&gt; Fierce attention to detail, red pens, lots of spare time.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;What they do:&lt;/b&gt; The Nitpicker is a micro-manager who likes to control all of your work, all the time.  Did you save the hospital money on equipment?  It&#8217;s not nearly enough.  Work hard on a killer presentation?  There&#8217;s a punctuation error on the 10th slide.  Nothing you do is ever good enough for The Nitpicker, and that can cause your own faith in your abilities to slip. You&#8217;ll spend all your time second-guessing yourself instead of innovating.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;How to make her love you:&lt;/b&gt; Instead of letting the Nitpicker drain you of all motivation, learn to work by your own standards.  Try finding someone else at work to be your mentor, because you surely won&#8217;t get coaching out of her, unless it&#8217;s to point out all your faults.  You might also try working one step ahead of The Nitpicker, detailing every single thing you do, so you&#8217;ll be ready for the inevitable barrage of questions.
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;A href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/98"&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;Quiz: What's Your Boss's Secret Personality?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Resources for the Workplace&lt;/b&gt;:&lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&#8226; Just for fun: &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3677-the-25-species-of-coworkers"&gt;The 25 Species of Coworkers&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3457-how-nurses-can-detect-an-unhealthy-work-environment"&gt;How Nurses Can Detect an Unhealthy Work Environment&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3141-ten-tips-for-staying-happy-at-work"&gt;Ten Tips for Staying Happy at Work&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3496-what-healthcare-professionals-should-never-ever-wear"&gt;What Healthcare Professionals Should Never (Ever!) Wear&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Alice Handley and Kayla Baxter</dc:creator>
      <pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 17:58:00 -0700</pubDate>
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/table&gt;Some of us are night owls. Others, early birds. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Apparently, based on your &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chronotype"  target="_blank"&gt;chronotype&lt;/a&gt;, you will be more naturally alert earlier or later in the day. And your type may dictate when and for how long you sleep. But while a natural variance in sleep patterns is natural, it appears that the early bird &lt;em&gt;is&lt;/em&gt; indeed the more coveted of the species. 
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&lt;br /&gt;We&#8217;ve heard it time and time again: most CEOs wake up before 6am. It&#8217;s often said that the most successful people are early risers &#8211; and it makes sense. Chances are if you get up early you spend less time sleeping, which frees up more time for other, more productive activities. 
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&lt;br /&gt;In addition, the early morning is often the time of day you have most control over. Unlike later in the day, very little happens between 5am and 8am that can throw a wrench in your plans. 
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&lt;br /&gt;But how does one go from night owl to early bird? And can you? 
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&lt;br /&gt;The truth is, no matter what your natural rhythm, many people &lt;em&gt;have&lt;/em&gt; been able to train themselves to become early risers and/or need less sleep. We'll show you how.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;Quiz: &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/97"&gt;What's Your Power Hour?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/hr&gt;&lt;/b&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;First Tip:&lt;a href=?page=2&gt; Sleep when you're tired &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1) Go to bed when you&#8217;re tired, and wake up at the same time every day.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;You might be thinking, &#8220;duh." And you&#8217;d be right. But as obvious as it sounds, it can be harder than you think.
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&lt;br /&gt; Just last night, I was ready for bed (which, for me means dozing off on the couch) around 10pm. But being the sucker for bad television that I am, I got sucked into watching a new show. By the time it was over, I was no longer sleepy. I ended up staying up until well after midnight. And for what? Mindless television I'll have forgotten about by the end of the week? Great. I would have much rather had two or three more hours of sleep. 
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&lt;br /&gt;And what if you&#8217;re not tired until 1am? That&#8217;s okay too. Just make sure you still &lt;a href="?page=7"&gt;set your alarm&lt;/a&gt; for the new, earlier time. The next day you&#8217;ll likely be tired earlier than usual, and a new, more steady sleep pattern will begin to take shape.
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&lt;br /&gt;What you don't want to do is try to force yourself to sleep when you're not tired. You'll just end up feeling frustrated. You'll waste valuable time in bed &lt;em&gt;not&lt;/em&gt; sleeping. And you might develop an anxiety around not being able to sleep, which can lead to insomnia. So wait till you're tired, wake up at the same time every day, and eventually, your new cycle will fall into place.&lt;/div&gt; 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;First Tip:&lt;a href=?page=3&gt; Know the 90-minute rule &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2) Know the 90-minute rule. &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;We&#8217;ve all heard that eight hours sleep is the ideal, but this theory goes against sleep research that says human sleep cycles occur in &lt;a href="http://www.webmd.com/sleep-disorders/guide/good-sleep-can-it-still-be-simple" target="_blank"&gt;90-minute intervals&lt;/a&gt;. 
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&lt;br /&gt;This hour-and-a-half is said to include two doses of REM sleep, separated by one of non-REM. Therefore, the best way to &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3671-22-affordable-ways-to-de-stress?page=6"&gt;get the most of your sleep&lt;/a&gt; time is to make it a multiple of 90 minutes. And it makes sense. I&#8217;ve noticed that when I sleep a full eight hours, I wake up feeling groggier than I do when I sleep for six, even though I&#8217;m missing out on two whole hours of shut-eye.&lt;/div&gt;  
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;Next Tip:&lt;a href=?page=4&gt; Cut down slowly &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3) Cut your sleep time incrementally.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt; You might be used to sleeping eight hours a night. But the truth is, you may be able to get by on less if you train your body to do so. And it&#8217;s not about getting used to surviving the day on less fuel. It&#8217;s about training your body to squeeze more quality sleep (REM) into the time allotted. 
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&lt;br /&gt;In order to make this process as painless as possible, cut down 30 minutes at a time. Plan to sleep for 7 &#189; hours one week, then seven the next week, and so on and so forth until you&#8217;re down to your ideal sleep schedule.&lt;/div&gt; 
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;Next Tip:&lt;a href=?page=5&gt; Have a good reason &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;strong&gt;4) Give yourself a &lt;em&gt;good&lt;/em&gt; reason to get up.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt; If you&#8217;ve got no good reason to get out of bed at a certain time, you&#8217;ll never do it. It can be a 6am gym class, a project you need to get a head start on or a delicious cup of coffee and the New York Times. 
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&lt;br /&gt;It doesn&#8217;t really matter what it is, just that its benefits outweigh those of your evil but &lt;a href="?page=8"&gt;oh-so-tempting snooze button&lt;/a&gt;. If it&#8217;s something you look forward to doing, even better. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Tip:&lt;/strong&gt; If you&#8217;re a coffee drinker, invest in a percolator with an automatic timer. Set it to brew at the time you&#8217;d like to get up. The smell of freshly brewed coffee, first thing in the morning? It really is the best part of waking up. &lt;/div&gt; 
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;Next Tip:&lt;a href=?page=6&gt; Wake up with light &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;strong&gt;5) Let the sun shine in.&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;Unless you have a stalker or a peeping tom, leave your curtains or blinds open so as to let in light in the morning. 
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&lt;br /&gt;When it&#8217;s dark, your body responds by producing sleep hormone melatonin. On the other hand, light discontinues this process and provides a natural cue to your brain that it&#8217;s time to wake up.  Does your window face a brick wall in a dark alley? Worried about that peeping tom? Or maybe (hopefully) you just prefer to have more control over the time in which light floods your room? No problem! The people at Phillips have made &lt;a href="http://www.wakeuplight.philips.com" target="_blank"&gt;an alarm clock with a large lamp&lt;/a&gt; that gradually increases the amount of light in your room to simulate the sunrise. Genius!&lt;/div&gt; 
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;strong&gt;6) Move your alarm clock.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;  Often, the hardest part of getting up early is actually getting out of your warm, comfortable bed. So if you have to get up to shut off your alarm clock, you&#8217;re already halfway there! Move it to the other side of the room, and set it to a truly intolerable sound at a high volume. For you, that might be the sound of a buzzer. For me, it&#8217;s the sound of deep house music. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Whatever it is, it needs to drive you crazy enough to make you &lt;em&gt;need&lt;/em&gt; to get up and shut it off. And once you&#8217;re up, you&#8217;ll likely stay up (thanks to all those great things you need to get up for &#8211; &lt;a href="?page=5"&gt;see #4&lt;/a&gt;).&lt;/div&gt;  
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;strong&gt;7) Don&#8217;t let yourself snooze.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt; You know the drill. You keep telling yourself  &#8220;just 10 more minutes."  The next thing you know, it&#8217;s been an hour-and-a-half and not only did you miss out on your precious morning time,  but you're now late for work. And the worst part? That hour-and-a-half was absolute torture, thanks to the blaring sound of your alarm clock, which has been disrupting an otherwise pleasant dream at 10-minute intervals.
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;strong&gt;8) Drink a glass of water.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt; If the excruciating urge to urinate doesn&#8217;t get you out of bed, you&#8217;ve got much bigger problems than sleeping in. Drink a glass of water before going to bed and you&#8217;ll naturally get up early. 
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&lt;br /&gt;After you drink that evening glass, refill it and leave it on the night stand for the next morning. A glass of water first thing in the morning will kick start your metabolism and get you up and running, even before you&#8217;ve had your first cup of coffee.&lt;/div&gt; 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;Quiz: &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/97"&gt;What's Your Power Hour?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/hr&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h3&gt;&lt;b&gt;Next Tip:&lt;a href=?page=10&gt; Wake yourself up&gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;div style="padding-left:60px; padding-right:60px; text-align:justify"&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;strong&gt;9) Be your own alarm clock.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;It may sound crazy, but if you tell yourself you&#8217;re going to get up by a certain time, often your body will wake you up naturally. 
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&lt;br /&gt;If you haven&#8217;t experienced this, try it some time. Tell yourself you need to get up at 5:30am. Set your alarm clock for 5:45am (just in case!). You may be surprised to find that you wake up right on time, give or take a few minutes. This will be especially more doable once you&#8217;ve gotten into the habit of going to sleep and waking up early for a few days or weeks. 
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&lt;br /&gt;When you do manage to wake up without an alarm clock, you'll find the transition back to full consciousness much more pleasant.&lt;/div&gt; 
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Work-Life Balance Resources&lt;/b&gt; &lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3649-what-your-natural-biology-is-saying-about-weight-loss"&gt;What Your Natural Biology Is Saying About Weight Loss&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2495-survive-the-night-shift-in-healthcare"&gt;Survive the Night Shift in Healthcare&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3671-22-affordable-ways-to-de-stress"&gt;22 Affordable Ways to De-stress&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3697-stress-relieving-home-decor-ideas-on-a-budget"&gt;Stress-Relieving Home Decor Ideas on a Budget&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3078-top-10-tips-to-balance-worklife-in-2009"&gt;Top 10 Tips to Balance Work/Life&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;h4&gt;Fun Quiz: &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/97"&gt;What's Your Power Hour?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/hr&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Tania Khadder | AllHealthcare</dc:creator>
      <pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 17:21:00 -0700</pubDate>
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      <description>&lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3705-10-ways-to-make-next-week-better-"&gt;&lt;img alt="10 Ways to Make Next Week Better " src="/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/2287/nurseee.jpg?1256947489" style="width:387px; float:left; padding: 8px" width="380" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;On one of the last episodes of &#8220;Seinfeld,&#8221; the main characters are stuck in traffic on a Sunday night. Galpal Elaine, who desperately wants to get home, wails, &#8220;All I know is that it's Sunday night, and &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3671-22-affordable-ways-to-de-stress"&gt;I have got to unwind!&lt;/a&gt; Now, who's with me?&#8221;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;If perpetually single Elaine felt that way, you can imagine how the rest of us - especially workers with families - cope on Sundays. But while some have their own  &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3671-22-affordable-ways-to-de-stress"&gt;ways to decompress&lt;/a&gt; before the workweek starts (Elaine watched &#8220;60 Minutes&#8221;), others spend Sunday nights either &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/86"&gt;worrying about the upcoming week&lt;/a&gt; or trying not to think about it at all.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;There are &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2008-6-ways-healthcare-workers-can-beat-burn-out-"&gt;better ways to prepare&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&#8220;It all goes back to choices, and a lot of people choose to go the negative route,&#8221; says Joel Zeff, author of Make the Right Choice: Creating a Positive, Innovative and Productive Work Life. &#8220;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3141-ten-tips-for-staying-happy-at-work"&gt;Why not go the [positive] way? It&#8217;s less stressful&lt;/a&gt;.&#8221;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;And while you may think planning is a drag, the truth is that the more you plan your life, the more you &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/1685-tips-for-reducing-stress"&gt;reduce your stress&lt;/a&gt; and increase your sense of control, says Steve Prentice, president of professional education firm Bristall Morgan and author of Cool Time: A Hands-On Plan for Managing Work and Balancing Time. &#8220;I always say that planning gives you the freedom to be spontaneous,&#8221; he adds. &#8220;Preparing for work is an investment in your long-term health.&#8221;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;So how do you effectively prepare yourself and your family for the workweek? Follow these 10 tips from Zeff and Prentice.
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href="?page=2"&gt;Prepare to Be Happy &gt;&gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;* &lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;Prepare to Be Happy:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;  
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3141-ten-tips-for-staying-happy-at-work"&gt;Happiness is a choice&lt;/a&gt;, Zeff says. &#8220;On Sunday, if you&#8217;re thinking about that manager, you&#8217;re letting that manager choose your happiness,&#8221; he points out. &#8220;You&#8217;ve got to take the choice back. Choose to be happy, passionate and &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3671-22-affordable-ways-to-de-stress?page=15"&gt;organized&lt;/a&gt;, and what you want to accomplish will happen.&#8221; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;So how do you - and your family - avoid lying awake Sunday night fretting? According to Prentice, write out what&#8217;s bugging you. &#8220;In so doing, you can solve your own problems,&#8221; he says.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href="?page=3"&gt;Know What You&#8217;ll Eat &gt;&gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;* &lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;Know What You&#8217;ll Eat:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt; 
&lt;br /&gt;This includes both at-work meals and what you&#8217;ll eat for dinner. &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3177-how-you-can-eat-healthy-at-work-and-home"&gt;Make a meal plan&lt;/a&gt; with your significant other, and get what you&#8217;ll need to prepare each meal. &#8220;The mental energy you&#8217;re spending at 3 p.m. wondering &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3649-what-your-natural-biology-is-saying-about-weight-loss"&gt;what you&#8217;ll have for dinner&lt;/a&gt; can be used for work,&#8221; Prentice says.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;b&gt;Informative Quiz&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/89"&gt;What's Your Nutrition IQ?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href="?page=4"&gt;Plan Your Commute Practically &gt;&gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;* &lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;Plan Your Commute Practically:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;  
&lt;br /&gt;Figure out how long it&#8217;s really going to take. &#8220;If you&#8217;re realistic as to what your pillow-to-desk time is, you&#8217;ll reduce your stress along the way,&#8221; Prentice notes. And once &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3671-22-affordable-ways-to-de-stress?page=19"&gt;driving to work&lt;/a&gt;, Prentice recommends staying in the right lane for the fastest commute.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href="?page=5"&gt;Get Up 15 Minutes Earlier &gt;&gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;* &lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;Get Up 15 Minutes Earlier:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;  
&lt;br /&gt;Use the extra time to have a comfortable, relaxed breakfast, rather than &#8220;running out the door with a Pop-Tart in your mouth,&#8221; Prentice says. &#8220;The more you can &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3703-9-ways-to-wake-up-earlier-for-your-morning-shift-"&gt;start the day comfortably&lt;/a&gt;, the better you can handle stress.&#8221;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Check out: &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3703-9-ways-to-wake-up-earlier-for-your-morning-shift-"&gt;9 Ways to Wake Up Earlier&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;b&gt;Informative Quiz&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/97"&gt;What's Your Power Hour?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href="?page=6"&gt;Write It Down &gt;&gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;* &lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;Write It Down:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;  
&lt;br /&gt;Always &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3671-22-affordable-ways-to-de-stress?page=15"&gt;forgetting your cell phone or wallet&lt;/a&gt; when you leave for work? &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3671-22-affordable-ways-to-de-stress?page=13"&gt;Make a list&lt;/a&gt; of items you regularly take with you and put it on your car&#8217;s visor, Prentice recommends. Another handy tool: A visual calendar for the fridge, which lets everyone know where everyone else is and what they&#8217;re doing.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href="?page=7"&gt;Do What&#8217;s Important First &gt;&gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;* &lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;Do What&#8217;s Important First:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt; 
&lt;br /&gt;The hours of 9 a.m. to 11 a.m. are often the most productive, Prentice says. &#8220;Be ready to defend the morning strenuously from meetings and email, so you can get the most important work of the day done,&#8221; he suggests.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href="?page=8"&gt;Be Ready to Ask for What You Need &gt;&gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;* &lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;Be Ready to Ask for What You Need:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;  
&lt;br /&gt;Everyone needs something from work, whether it be the chance to be more creative, the &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2921-healthcare-professionals-guide-to-getting-a-promotion"&gt;opportunity to manage&lt;/a&gt;, more support, &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2921-healthcare-professionals-guide-to-getting-a-promotion"&gt;higher pay&lt;/a&gt; or anything else. &#8220;You need to figure out what you &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3141-ten-tips-for-staying-happy-at-work"&gt;need to be happy&lt;/a&gt;,&#8221; Zeff says. &#8220;If you&#8217;re not getting it, you&#8217;re going to be physically there but mentally not. Stand up and say you need opportunity and positive support.&#8221; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;b&gt;Want to Get Promoted?&lt;/b&gt; Check Out: &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2921-healthcare-professionals-guide-to-getting-a-promotion"&gt;Healthcare Professionals' Guide to Getting a Promotion&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href="?page=9"&gt;Ask How You Can Help &gt;&gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;* &lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;Ask How You Can Help:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;  
&lt;br /&gt;At the same time, instead of just asking what others can do for you, think about what you can do for others. &#8220;When you help your colleagues and partners, it will come back to you tenfold,&#8221; Zeff says.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href="?page=10"&gt;Stop Whining &gt;&gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;* &lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;Stop Whining:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt; 
&lt;br /&gt;This is an energy-drainer, so make up your mind not to do it. &#8220;Does it help you?&#8221; Zeff asks. &#8220;It does nothing and just &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/1685-tips-for-reducing-stress"&gt;builds stress&lt;/a&gt;.&#8221;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href="?page=11"&gt;Accept the Upcoming Week Will Contain Change &gt;&gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt; &lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;* &lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;Accept the Upcoming Week Will Contain Change:&lt;/b&gt; &lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;This constant in work and in life often is a source of stress. &#8220;When you&#8217;re open and flexible to change, you &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2486-stress-management-tips-for-healthcare-workers"&gt;reduce stress&lt;/a&gt;, and the passion starts coming up, which means you&#8217;re more productive and effective,&#8221; Zeff says.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href="?page=12"&gt;More Work-Life Balance Resources &gt;&gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Work-Life Balance Resources&lt;/b&gt; &lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3649-what-your-natural-biology-is-saying-about-weight-loss"&gt;What Your Natural Biology Is Saying About Weight Loss&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3671-22-affordable-ways-to-de-stress"&gt;22 Affordable Ways to De-stress&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2008-6-ways-healthcare-workers-can-beat-burn-out-"&gt;6 Ways Healthcare Workers Can Beat Burn-Out &lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/1685-tips-for-reducing-stress"&gt;Tips for Reducing Stress&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2486-stress-management-tips-for-healthcare-workers"&gt;Stress-Management Tips for Healthcare Workers&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3363-lessons-from-the-code"&gt;Lessons From the Code - A First-Hand Account From A Crisis Clinician&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3078-top-10-tips-to-balance-worklife-in-2009"&gt;Top 10 Tips to Balance Work/Life&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3141-ten-tips-for-staying-happy-at-work"&gt;Ten Tips for Staying Happy at Work&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3697-stress-relieving-home-decor-ideas-on-a-budget"&gt;Stress-Relieving Home Decor Ideas on a Budget&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3648-the-best-25-vacation-cities-for-healthcare-workers"&gt;&lt;img src="http://nursinglink.com/nfs/nursinglink/attachment_images/0010/8812/DC_max200w.jpg"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&#8226; &lt;b&gt;Need a vacation?&lt;/b&gt; Check out &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3648-the-best-25-vacation-cities-for-healthcare-workers"&gt;The Best 25 Vacation Cities for Healthcare Workers&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;b&gt;Informative Quiz&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/60"&gt;How Do You React to Stress in the Workplace? [PhD Certified]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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      <dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Christine F Della Monaca | Monster Featured Writer</dc:creator>
      <pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 09:47:00 -0700</pubDate>
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      <description>&lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3697-stress-relieving-home-decor-ideas-on-a-budget"&gt;&lt;img alt="Stress-Relieving Home Decor Ideas on a Budget" src="/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/2195/serene_balance.jpg?1256947512" style="width:387px; float:left; padding: 8px" width="380" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Kim Danger, nationally-recognized savings expert and founder of www.mommysavers.com, has teamed up with Uniroyal Tire to release a series of e-books for the frugal-minded. The team&#8217;s e-books and videos can be found &lt;a href="http://www.uniroyaltires.com/moremileageforyourmoney"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;, and they are available for free. &lt;/em&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;My latest e-book, &lt;em&gt;Pamper Yourself for Less&lt;/em&gt;, is all about &lt;strong&gt;making yourself a priority&lt;/strong&gt; and creating some &#8220;me time.&#8221; The best place to start pampering yourself is in the home, so I have some tips to make your home more relaxing.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Remove the Extras&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;When you de-clutter your home, you&#8217;re not only getting rid of unwanted belongings, you&#8217;re removing &#8220;dead weight&#8221; from your life.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;This can surely be an overwhelming process, so I recommend starting the habit to clean for 15 minutes a few times a week. Once it becomes part of your routine, it&#8217;s going to be much easier to keep things tidy. After all, we bring things into our home on a regular basis, so it&#8217;s only natural that we remove what we don&#8217;t use.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Make sure to keep a box somewhere in a central location for unwanted items that you don&#8217;t want to throw away: you can donate them to Goodwill, or you could sell them on either eBay or Craigslist if they are still in good condition.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Next Page: &lt;a href="?page=2"&gt;Feng Shui -&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Kim Danger, nationally-recognized savings expert and founder of www.mommysavers.com, has teamed up with Uniroyal Tire to release a series of e-books for the frugal-minded. The team&#8217;s e-books and videos can be found &lt;a href="http://www.uniroyaltires.com/moremileageforyourmoney"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;, and they are available for free. &lt;/em&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Feng Shui&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Many people have adopted the Chinese art or practice of Feng Shui (&#8220;Fung Shway&#8221;) to create harmony in their home. The aspect of Feng Shui that relates to creating positive effects in your home relies on the orientation of objects. For example, the way you arrange furniture in a room.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;When you decorate your home by allowing &#8220;chi&#8221; (energy) to flow through your home freely, your home becomes a more open, peaceful and relaxing place to be. The easiest way to put Feng Shui to use in your home is to remove clutter.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Unnecessary junk hinders the flow of good energy through your living space. Color selection and d&#233;cor are also factors. Here are some &lt;strong&gt;easy and inexpensive ways to put Feng Shui into practice&lt;/strong&gt; in your own home:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;*1.*  Make sure nothing is blocking the energy flow through your hallways and doors. De-clutter these areas and place plants in hallways to help the energy along its way.
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&lt;br /&gt;*2.*  Don&#8217;t place any chairs where a person&#8217;s back would face a doorway, window or sofa.
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&lt;br /&gt;*3.*  Don&#8217;t let your &#8220;chi&#8221; get trapped in a corner! Lighten these areas up with lights, mirrors and plants.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Next Page: &lt;a href="?page=3"&gt;Aromatherapy -&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Kim Danger, nationally-recognized savings expert and founder of www.mommysavers.com, has teamed up with Uniroyal Tire to release a series of e-books for the frugal-minded. The team&#8217;s e-books and videos can be found &lt;a href="http://www.uniroyaltires.com/moremileageforyourmoney"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;, and they are available for free. &lt;/em&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Aromatherapy&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;As one of our most powerful senses, smell stimulates the part of the brain that connects memory and emotion. Aromatherapy has been connected with &lt;a href="http://www.adminsecret.com/training/articles/528-11-office-ergonomic-tips-for-easing-the-workplace-stress"&gt;relieving stress&lt;/a&gt;, energizing the body and promoting general well-being.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Health claims aside, fragrances can help create a welcoming and calming home environment. Some frugal Do-It-Yourself ideas include:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;*1. Essential Oils*&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;Essential oils are scents created from plant extracts. I like to put about 15 drops of lavender in a spray bottle of water to make a homemade air freshener. You could spray your pillow (or just put a few drops directly on your pillowcase) to get a more restful sleep.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;*2. Sweet Smelling Fabrics*&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;Combine four tablespoons of fabric softener with a half gallon of water in a spray bottle to create a homemade fabric spray. Try it on sheets and towels for a fresh scent.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;*3. Do It Yourself Simmering Scents*&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;Peel an apple or an orange and simmer the peels in a little water on the stove. Add some cinnamon, clove or nutmeg to get a great scent throughout your house. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Next Page: &lt;a href="?page=4"&gt;More Stress Management Resources -&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Kim Danger, nationally-recognized savings expert and founder of www.mommysavers.com, has teamed up with Uniroyal Tire to release a series of e-books for the frugal-minded. The team&#8217;s e-books and videos can be found &lt;a href="http://www.uniroyaltires.com/moremileageforyourmoney"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;, and they are available for free. &lt;/em&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;strong&gt;More Stress Management Resources&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3649-what-your-natural-biology-is-saying-about-weight-loss"&gt;What Your Natural Biology Is Saying About Weight Loss&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2008-6-ways-healthcare-workers-can-beat-burn-out-"&gt;6 Ways Healthcare Workers Can Beat Burn-Out &lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/1685-tips-for-reducing-stress"&gt;Tips for Reducing Stress&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2486-stress-management-tips-for-healthcare-workers"&gt;Stress-Management Tips for Healthcare Workers&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3363-lessons-from-the-code"&gt;Lessons From the Code - A First-Hand Account From A Crisis Clinician&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3078-top-10-tips-to-balance-worklife-in-2009"&gt;Top 10 Tips to Balance Work/Life&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3141-ten-tips-for-staying-happy-at-work"&gt;Ten Tips for Staying Happy at Work&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3648-the-best-25-vacation-cities-for-healthcare-workers"&gt;&lt;img src="http://nursinglink.com/nfs/nursinglink/attachment_images/0010/8812/DC_max200w.jpg"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&#8226; &lt;b&gt;Need a vacation?&lt;/b&gt; Check out &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3648-the-best-25-vacation-cities-for-healthcare-workers"&gt;The Best 25 Vacation Cities for Healthcare Workers&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226;&lt;b&gt; Informative Quiz&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/60"&gt;How Do You React to Stress in the Workplace? [PhD Certified]&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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      <description>&lt;a href="http://www.allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3688-8-ways-to-manage-a-complaint-and-protect-your-nursing-license-"&gt;&lt;img alt="8 Ways to Manage a Complaint (and Protect Your Nursing License!) " src="/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/2013/stresednurse.jpg?1248224580" style="width:387px; float:left; padding: 8px" width="380" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Did you know that anyone &#8211; your employer, a co-worker, a patient, even a jilted lover &#8211; can file a complaint against your practice?  &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Handle it well, and you could turn it into a valuable learning experience.  Handle it poorly, and you could lose your license. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;AllHealthcare spoke to a Sheryl Oakes Caddy, a nurse, nursing faculty instructor and an attorney who represents nurses facing possible license suspension and revocation. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;She helped us come up with a &#8220;must do&#8221; list for nurses dealing with a complaint -- it's certainly not an easy situation to find yourself in. "Nurses identify very strongly as nurses," Caddy says. "So it can be jarring when we're told we're not a good nurse." &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;But hopefully, with our eight tips, you can overcome a complaint, avoid losing your nursing license and continue to practice for many years to come. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=2&gt; The Board Comes First &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1. The Board Comes First&lt;/strong&gt; 
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&lt;br /&gt;The Board of Nursing in your state is more than just a government body to which you pay your yearly registration fee.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&#8220;Nurses don&#8217;t often think of the boards of nursing as a disciplinary body, they think they&#8217;re on your side, that they&#8217;re &lt;em&gt;your&lt;/em&gt; board,&#8221; Caddy says. &#8220;But they&#8217;re not. The  
&lt;br /&gt;Board&#8217;s mission truly is to protect nursing practice, and first and foremost, the public from poor nursing practice.&#8221;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;In addition, your ultimate obligation &#8211; beyond the one to your healthcare facility &#8211; is to the Board. &#8220;If a facility tells you to do something and it&#8217;s not within your scope of practice (as outlined by the Board), you can&#8217;t do it,&#8221; Caddy adds. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=3&gt; Get a Lawyer! &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2. Get a Lawyer&lt;/strong&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;And not just any lawyer. Get yourself a lawyer who specializes in administrative law and licensure. Even better if your lawyer is also a nurse. &#8220;It&#8217;s very helpful to have an attorney who&#8217;s a nurse because you speak the same language,&#8221; Caddy says. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;A good lawyer &#8211; one who understands nursing &#8211; will help you identify ways to improve your practice, so you&#8217;ll be reviewed more favorably by the Board throughout the process.
&lt;br /&gt;They&#8217;ll also help you understand the complaint, any conditions being placed upon you and the steps you need to take to overcome them. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Finally, they&#8217;ll be the point person. The Board will no longer have access to you &#8211; they&#8217;ll deal directly with your attorney. Caddy says that often, nurses will try to represent themselves. Sometimes, this can lead to a breakdown of communication, and by the time an attorney does get involved, emotions will be running high. And it&#8217;ll be more difficult to move forward effectively. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;You can find a lawyer through your state bar association or your liability insurer (if you have one). &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=4&gt; Are You Insured? &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3. Have Professional Liability Insurance&lt;/strong&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;This is an action you need take &lt;em&gt;before&lt;/em&gt; you run into any trouble &#8211; and preferably, as soon as you begin your practice. If you wait until a complaint has already been filed against you, it&#8217;ll be too late.  &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Often, nurses assume liability insurance only covers large malpractice suits. And given that they&#8217;re unlikely to ever be called in such a case, they forgo it all together. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;But what they don&#8217;t realize is that nurses are more likely to face a licensure issue, and that often, professional liability insurance will cover that too.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;And then, if a complaint is filed against you, your provider will help you source an attorney and cover the cost. 
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&lt;br /&gt;A hundred dollars a year is a small price to pay for that kind of peace of mind. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=5&gt; Act Preemtively &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;4. Act Preemptively&lt;/strong&gt; 
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&lt;br /&gt;Let&#8217;s say you&#8217;ve just been nailed for a DUI. Or maybe you realize you need help with an addiction. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Don&#8217;t wait for the Board to come to you.  &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Going to your employer voluntarily to request help will go a long way towards protecting your license. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Think of it this way: they&#8217;re going to find out eventually. It&#8217;s better if they find out from you. 
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&lt;br /&gt;Even better if they see you making a sincere attempt to address the issue before it has to come to disciplinary action.  &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=6&gt; Improve Your Practice &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;5. Improve Your Practice&lt;/strong&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;Consult with your attorney to evaluate the nature of the complaint. Whatever it is, begin take steps immediately to improve your practice. Maybe you could benefit from continued education? Maybe you&#8217;ve been less than meticulous about your documentation? These are all issues that you can and should address before you stand before the Board.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&#8220;Up to the point of revocation, you can come to an agreement with the Board on a disciplinary action that can promote better practice for the licensee,&#8221; Caddy says. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;By improving your practice immediately and by your own will, you show the Board that you understand the problem, and that you&#8217;re willing and ready to take the steps necessary to rectify it. If the Board feels it&#8217;s necessary to help you understand the weight of the issue, the seriousness of the complaint &#8211; and its ramifications &#8211; will be significantly escalated. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=7&gt; Document &lt;em&gt;Everything&lt;/em&gt; &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;6. Document Everything&lt;/strong&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;You learn it in nursing school, but you may not realize quite how important it is until you are actually facing a complaint. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Mother Jones, registered nurse and founder of well-known nursing blog Nurse Ratched&#8217;s Place, reiterated this point for NursingLink. &#8220;If I did a dressing change but I didn&#8217;t chart it, then legally I didn&#8217;t do it,&#8221; she says. &#8220;If the patient&#8217;s wound gets infected, and they sue me, it doesn&#8217;t matter if I say I did it. If it&#8217;s not in the chart, I&#8217;m liable.&#8221;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;The same logic applies to any action you&#8217;re taking to improve your practice or reform in light of a complaint. Things like continued education or rehabilitation need to be documented. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=8&gt; Up to Date on Your Scope of Practice? &gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;7. Keep Up with Changes to Your Scope of Practice&lt;/strong&gt; 
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&lt;br /&gt;Sure, you got to know the ins and outs of your Scope of Practice in Nursing School. But have you re-read them since? You should. Your job depends on it. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Caddy says it&#8217;s important to keep a close eye on these, as they can and do change over time. And it&#8217;s your job to keep abreast of the changes. &#8220;For example, what constitutes patient abuse has changed over the years,&#8221; she says. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=9&gt; Meet All the Conditions&gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;8. Meet All the Conditions&lt;/strong&gt; 
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&lt;br /&gt;Whether you&#8217;re facing a complaint, have had your license suspended or have already had your license revoked, getting back in the game depends on successfully meeting the conditions set forth by the Board. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;If you have a DUI or drug dependency, make sure you complete the rehabilitation process successfully. If you get caught giving less-than adequate service, identify the issue and get some nursing continuing education to enhance your work performance.  Whatever you do, make sure you make a sincere effort to reform, and that you document everything you do along the way.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;To speak to Sheryl Oakes Caddy, email her &lt;a href="mailto:soc.law@comcast.net"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href=?page=10&gt; More Resources for Nurses&gt;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;u&gt;More Resources for Nurses&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;/b&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3196-reduce-nursings-physical-strain"&gt;Reduce Nursing's Physical Strain&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/2820-nursing-reality-shock-the-new-nurse-survival-guide"&gt;Nursing Reality Shock: The New-Nurse Survival Guide&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/2529-nursing-careers-beyond-the-bedside"&gt;Nursing Careers Beyond the Bedside&lt;/a&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3040-career-guide-licensed-practical-licensed-vocational-nurses"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Career Guide&lt;/b&gt;: Licensed Practical &amp; Licensed Vocational Nurses&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3039-career-guide-registered-nurse"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Career Guide&lt;/b&gt;: Registered Nurse&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3030-nursing-psychiatric-and-home-health-aides"&gt;Nursing, Psychiatric, and Home Health Aides&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/101-career-qa-licensed-practical-nurse"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Career Q&amp;A&lt;/b&gt;: Licensed Practical Nurse&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;b&gt;Informative Quiz&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/28"&gt;Nursing: Should I Give it a Try?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
      <dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Tania Khadder | AllHealthcare</dc:creator>
      <pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 17:23:00 -0700</pubDate>
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&lt;br /&gt;Whether you&#8217;re an &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/18-career-guide-emt-and-paramedic"&gt;EMT&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; dealing with life-or-death situations, or a &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3030-nursing-psychiatric-and-home-health-aides"&gt;home health aide&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; caring for &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2747-difficult-patients-why-theyre-that-way-and-how-to-handle-them"&gt;difficult patients&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;, any job in healthcare can be overwhelming and stressful. Learning how to manage stress and channel it through positive means is vital, not just for a successful career, but for your &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3141-ten-tips-for-staying-happy-at-work"&gt;happiness and well-being&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/b&gt;too. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;If you don&#8217;t take time to unwind, constant stress can lead to a number of physical and psychological problems, like poor concentration, depression, back pain and &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3649-what-your-natural-biology-is-saying-about-weight-loss"&gt;weight gain&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;. It also weakens your immune system and increases your risk for cancer and cardiovascular disease.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;That&#8217;s why AllHealthcare came up with these 22 different ways to de-stress without breaking the bank. So hit pause, relax and indulge in some much needed (and affordable!) R&amp;R. A hardworking &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/67"&gt;healthcare professional&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; like you deserves it! &lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;1. Do Something You Did All the Time as a Kid&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1518/kid.JPG"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;Do you ever long for those days when your biggest concerns were nap time, recess and Saturday morning cartoons? You&#8217;d build pillow forts at slumber parties, climb the biggest tree in your neighborhood and catch fireflies at night. It&#8217;s amazing how much less complicated life was back in the day.  &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Just because you&#8217;re all grown up now doesn&#8217;t mean you can&#8217;t still partake in the simple joys of childhood. Turn off your Blackberry, disconnect from the internet, and act like a kid whenever you can. Revel in the refreshing nostalgia, and feel the positive associations and memories melt away your stress. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;If you have kids of your own, have them participate in these activities with you. Ride a &lt;A href="?page=10"&gt;&lt;b&gt;bike to the park&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;. Start a &lt;A href="?page=12"&gt;&lt;b&gt;pick-up kickball game&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; with your family or friends. Make a snowman in the wintertime. The possibilities (and your imagination) are endless.   &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: Free
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: Think of your favorite childhood pastimes&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;2. Volunteer Your Time or Expertise &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1896/volunteer.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;One of the best feelings in the world is giving back to others. As a healthcare professional, you have tons of knowledge and experience, so why not share your skills with someone else? &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/3605-jump-start-your-healthcare-career-by-volunteering"&gt;Volunteering&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; can be something small &#8211; like reading a story to young cancer patients one day a month &#8211; or something bigger &#8211; like serving as a &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/155-red-cross-healthcare-volunteers-help-in-disaster-relief"&gt;disaster relief nurse&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. No matter what you do, you can be content to know that you&#8217;ve made a difference in someone&#8217;s life. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Not only is volunteering incredibly fulfilling, it&#8217;s also &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/3604-leverage-volunteer-work-on-your-resume"&gt;&lt;b&gt;a great resume builder&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.  If you&#8217;re a recent grad or career changer, volunteering can give you &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/227-volunteering-can-boost-skills-advance-careers"&gt;&lt;b&gt;valuable training&lt;/b&gt; &lt;/a&gt;and hands-on experience to jump start your &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/3605-jump-start-your-healthcare-career-by-volunteering"&gt;&lt;b&gt;healthcare career&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Non-profit associations are always looking for more help, so even if you can only donate 5 hours a month, your time will be very much appreciated and well worth the effort. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: Reading at your local hospital or cleaning up litter at your favorite park costs next to nothing (just factor in the transportation costs and pack your own lunch). Volunteering abroad may cost the price of airfare and lodging. 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: Check out AllHealthcare&#8217;s exclusive &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/careers/articles/3605-jump-start-your-healthcare-career-by-volunteering"&gt;Guide to Volunteering&lt;/a&gt;. You can also Google &#8220;volunteer&#8221; and your town and state or visit &lt;a href="http://www.volunteer.gov/gov/" target="_blank"&gt;Volunteer.gov&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.redcross.org/portal/site/en/menuitem.d8aaecf214c576bf971e4cfe43181aa0/?vgnextoid=7bf51a53f1c37110VgnVCM1000003481a10aRCRD" target="_blank"&gt;American Red Cross&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.serve.gov/"  target="_blank"&gt;Serve.gov&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.voa.org/" target="_blank"&gt;Volunteers of America&lt;/a&gt;, and &lt;a href="http://www.habitat.org/" target="_blank"&gt;Habitat for Humanity&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;3. Stretch, Breathe and Meditate&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1521/stretching.JPG"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;It&#8217;s hard not to feel &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2486-stress-management-tips-for-healthcare-workers"&gt;stressed and overworked&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; by the hectic pace of a hyper-connected society that moves at the speed of MyFaceTwitSpaceBlackBookBerry. Before you go into &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/videos/quizzes/show/86"&gt;meltdown mode&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, hit pause, relax and take a breather. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Even if &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="?page=16"&gt;yoga&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&#8217;s not your thing, basic meditation, stretching and breathing techniques, though seemingly simple, can work wonders for your stress relief. When you stress out, tension is stored in your body, causing pain and tightness, especially in your back and shoulders. Stretching will get your body loose and your circulation flowing in full force again. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;To meditate, find a relaxing atmosphere, sit on level ground (find a cushion if uncomfortable), close your eyes, relax every muscle and breathe deeply with your abdomen, not your chest. Focus on each inhale and exhale to exclude other thoughts and quiet your mind.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: Free
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: Google &#8220;how to meditate&#8221; or visit &lt;a href="http://www.how-to-meditate.org/" TARGET="_blank"&gt;How-to-Meditate.org&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;4. Hang Out With Your Funniest Friend&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1519/funniestfriend.JPG"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;It&#8217;s been scientifically proven that laughter is both preventive and therapeutic. It decreases your stress hormone levels and boosts healthy hormones, like endorphins, strengthening your immune system. You even get a &lt;b&gt;&lt;A href="?page=12"&gt;mini workout&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; for your abs, diaphragm and your shoulders.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Not only will laughing with your friend boost your mood, it&#8217;ll take your mind off &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/1685-tips-for-reducing-stress"&gt;all the stressors in your life&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. It offers a release from the pent-up emotions and frustrations you may be feeling, and the emotional bonding will boost your self-esteem and feeling of connectedness to others.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Laughter really is the best medicine, so call up your funniest friend and hang out. You&#8217;ll be glad you did.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: Free
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: Call your funniest friend&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;5. SLEEP&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1882/sleep.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;Nothing beats a good night&#8217;s rest. &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2747-difficult-patients-why-theyre-that-way-and-how-to-handle-them"&gt;Patients buzzing you non-stop&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;? Holier-than-thou &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3457-how-nurses-can-detect-an-unhealthy-work-environment"&gt;doctors bossing you around&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;? Many healthcare professionals bring their troubles home with them and that equals more stress for you &lt;i&gt;and&lt;/i&gt; your loved ones. Why not sleep it off? Getting even 30 minutes of shut eye can help you relax and put your problems in perspective. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;If you&#8217;re going to try to sleep off your stress, make sure you&#8217;ve got surroundings that promote good quality rest. A dark, cool, quiet room with few electronics is best. Feeling antsy but still want to rest? Try a cup of Valerian Root or chamomile tea. A &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="?page=11"&gt;warm bath&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; can also help put you in a restful state of mind. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: Free
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://www.sleepfoundation.org/" target="_blank"&gt;National Sleep Foundation&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;6. Visit the Shooting Range&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1505/shootingrange.JPG"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;Does your stress ever turn into rage, and you want to rip your hair out and scream? Before you tear down your curtains and punch that hole in your wall, consider paying a visit to your local shooting range.   &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;There&#8217;s something curiously calming about loading a gun, aiming, squeezing the trigger and hearing the bullets rip holes into a paper target. Not only does it release the physical tension that&#8217;s been building up from your stress, but you also get the satisfaction of taking home your target and showing off your killer aiming skills to your friends.  &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Shooting ranges generally charge by the hour, and the prices are reasonable if you have your own gun. Renting a gun isn&#8217;t that much more expensive, but if you wanted to take a class, they&#8217;re a bit pricey, ranging from $40 to $65.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: $10-18/hour if you have your own gun; Renting a gun can be $10-20/hour extra; Classes run $40-65
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: Google &#8220;shooting range&#8221; and your town and state &lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;7. Buy Cheap Paints or an Art Project at a Hobby Store&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1506/artproject.JPG"&gt;&lt;/center&gt; 
&lt;br /&gt;Looking at art definitely has its calming effects, but it&#8217;s not always just about the product. You don&#8217;t have to be Picasso to get the &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3485-mending-the-heart--calming-the-mind-with-art-therapy"&gt;health benefits of producing beautiful works of art&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; either. People who make art as a hobby find that the process of self-expression through unwinding and creating art can be extremely soothing as well. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Artistic self-expression originates from Sigmund Freud and Carl Jung, who theorized that the power of imagery could tap into the thoughts, memories and feelings of a person, whether conscious or unconscious. &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3485-mending-the-heart--calming-the-mind-with-art-therapy"&gt;Art therapy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; is thus frequently used in hospitals, clinics and rehab facilities to promote physical, emotional and mental wellbeing via creative expression.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Making art helps lessen anxiety, stress and depression, and promote self-awareness, self-esteem and insight into your life. You can pick up reasonably priced art supplies or art kits at any hobby store. Just set aside an art space, turn on some relaxing music and &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3485-mending-the-heart--calming-the-mind-with-art-therapy"&gt;paint to your health&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: $7-25
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: Google &#8220;art store&#8221; or &#8220;hobby store&#8221; and your town and state
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; For art techniques or ideas, visit &lt;a href="http://www.artbistro.com/training" TARGET="_blank"&gt;ArtBistro&#8217;s Training Center&lt;/a&gt; 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; For more info on art therapy, read &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3485-mending-the-heart--calming-the-mind-with-art-therapy"&gt;Mending the Heart--Calming the Mind With Art Therapy&lt;/a&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;8. Cook a Delicious Dinner with Items You Have in Your Fridge&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1507/fridgecooking.JPG"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;America&#8217;s &#8220;Fast Food Nation&#8221; mentality has us plowing through processed, &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3177-how-you-can-eat-healthy-at-work-and-home"&gt;barely digestible microwave dinners&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; and super-sized extra value meals. Not only is our &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3649-what-your-natural-biology-is-saying-about-weight-loss"&gt;physique suffering&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, our stress and anxiety levels are off the charts. Everything around us, even food, is moving at the speed of light.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Back up, slow down and consider taking the time to cook your next meal with simple items you already have in your fridge and cupboards. Cooking takes patience and persistence. The process of chopping, measuring, stirring and saut&#233;ing can be incredibly therapeutic.  &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Check what ingredients you have in your kitchen, and look up a recipe (see below). Pick something simple to make, so the preparation and cleanup don&#8217;t stress you out. Let the &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3649-what-your-natural-biology-is-saying-about-weight-loss?page=2"&gt;&lt;b&gt;culinary sensations, like scent, sight and touch&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/b&gt;mesmerize you. Finally, take pride in the sense of accomplishment as you slowly enjoy your delicious meal.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: Free
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: Visit any of these websites to get recipes based on ingredients that you have:
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;A href="http://allrecipes.com/Search/Ingredients.aspx " TARGET="_blank"&gt;Allrecipes.com&lt;/a&gt; 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;A href="http://cookingbynumbers.com/frames.html " TARGET="_blank"&gt;Cookingbynumbers.com&lt;/a&gt; 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;A href="http://bigoven.com/leftoverwizard2.aspx " TARGET="_blank"&gt;Bigoven.com&lt;/a&gt; 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;A href="http://www.recipematcher.com/ " TARGET="_blank"&gt;Recipematcher.com&lt;/a&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8226; &lt;A href="http://www.supercook.com/" TARGET="_blank"&gt;Supercook.com&lt;/a&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;9. Go on a Hike or Go to the Park&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1508/hiking.JPG"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;Sometimes we get so caught up in traffic, shopping malls and the hustle and bustle of everyday life that we forget to stop and smell the flowers. But when Ralph Waldo Emerson said &#8220;adopt the pace of nature,&#8221; he wasn&#8217;t being poetic&#8212;he was being entirely scientific.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Science has proven time and time again how the psychological benefits of nature can calm the brain and better your mood and concentration. Hospital patients recover faster when they have a view of trees and flowers from their window, and children with attention-deficit disorder exhibit less symptoms in a natural environment. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;So get back to basics, and enjoy nature. Bring a blanket to the park and lie out, or go for a hike and take in the scenery. Bask in the sun, breathe in the fresh air, and appreciate all the colorful simplicity of the outdoors. Your brain&#8217;s health depends on it.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: Mostly free (Some parks/hiking grounds may charge $3-5)
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: Check out this &lt;A href="http://www.llbean.com/parksearch/" TARGET="_blank"&gt;great interactive park directory&lt;/a&gt; or just Google &#8220;hiking trail&#8221; or &#8220;park&#8221; and your town and state&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;10. Take a Bath with Candles and Aromatherapy&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1517/bath.JPG"&gt;&lt;/center&gt; 
&lt;br /&gt;The recuperative and healing properties of water have many stress-relieving benefits and allow the body to fall into a  &lt;A href="?page=6"&gt;&lt;b&gt;deeper sleep&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. Submerging in a bath tub relieves your body from the constant pull of gravity, and heated water relaxes muscle tension, improving circulation, range of motion and energy flow.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Melt away your stress by creating a mini spa in your bathroom. Turn on soothing music, dim the lights, light candles and prepare fresh towels. The music will drown out household sounds that you may associate with everyday stressors, and relaxed lighting can go a long way when creating a peaceful mood. You can pick up high-end aromatherapy bubble bath soap, skin-moisturizing oils and exfoliating body scrubs on the cheap at your local T.J. Maxx, Marshalls or Ross.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Most importantly, make arrangements for your well-deserved uninterrupted solitude. Turn off your cell phone, log out of email and if you have roommates or family around, tell them to leave you alone for an hour or two. Be sure to prepare your bed beforehand so you have a nice, comfy space to crawl into after your bath.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: $4-18, depending on how many spa items you want to buy 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: High-end spa items are always available at deep discount at stores like &lt;a href="http://www.tjmaxx.com/locator.asp" TARGET="_blank"&gt;T.J. Maxx&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.marshallsonline.com/locator.asp" TARGET="_blank"&gt;Marshalls&lt;/a&gt;, and &lt;a href="http://www.rossstores.com/" TARGET="_blank"&gt;Ross&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;11. Get Your Adrenaline Pumping! &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1883/kickbox.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;Whether you&#8217;re exhausted, frustrated, or just plain stressed-out, nothing beats the blues like getting your blood pumping. Exercise, and the adrenaline it produces, has been proven to help people relax &#8211; probably because you&#8217;re so tired afterward! The thought of dragging your tired behind to the gym after a &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/2495-survive-the-night-shift-in-healthcare"&gt;&lt;b&gt;12-hour shift&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; might sound awful, but that&#8217;s not your only option. There are tons of great ways to exercise that don&#8217;t involve weights, spandex, or protein powder. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Got a dog? Take him for a &lt;b&gt;&lt;A href="?page=10"&gt;nice, long walk&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. Slip on your sneakers and you&#8217;re good to go! Looking for something a little more exciting? Try a class like kickboxing or spinning. You can punch and kick your stress away, or imagine yourself cycling toward your &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3648-the-best-25-vacation-cities-for-healthcare-workers"&gt;next vacation&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;! &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: Free if you do something outdoors or at the community center. Gym memberships generally start around $30/month. With this economic climate, you can negotiate a good deal.
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://www.gym.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Gym.com&lt;/a&gt;, your local community center &lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;12. Make &#8220;To-Do&#8221; Lists and Actively Check Off Items &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1881/todo.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;I don&#8217;t know about you, but I &lt;i&gt;love&lt;/i&gt; to be organized. Even if my &#8220;To-Do&#8221; list consists of things like &#8220;take a shower&#8221; and &#8220;walk the dog,&#8221; I feel like I&#8217;ve accomplished something once I&#8217;m able to check an item off my list. Try making a &#8220;To-Do&#8221; list for simple things, like folding laundry and running errands. Each time you complete a task, check it off. The action of crossing something off a list is a tangible way to see how much you&#8217;ve accomplished in a day. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: Using a scrap of paper won&#8217;t cost you a thing, but you could also splurge for a cute notepad or colored Post-It notes. Don&#8217;t want to use paper? Invest in a white board ($5-$12 at your local office supply store) and hang it on the fridge. 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: &lt;a href="http://www.papyrusonline.com/category/stationery.do" target="_blank"&gt;Papyrus Stationary&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=" http://www.officedepot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Office Depot&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;13. Get a Free or Discounted Massage&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1510/massage.JPG"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3036-career-guide-massage-therapist"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Massage therapy&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/b&gt;has a rich history across several cultures. Hindus, Persians, Egyptians and the Chinese have been healing ailments with massage for thousands of years. Hippocrates even wrote papers &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3036-career-guide-massage-therapist"&gt;recommending massage&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; to treat joint and circulation problems.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;The physical and psychological &lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3036-career-guide-massage-therapist"&gt;&lt;b&gt;benefits of massage&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; are plentiful. It reduces anxiety and the level of stress hormones in the body, improves circulation and your immune system, and increases your self-esteem via direct contact with another person through touch.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Your body can go through significant wear and tear from being on your feet tending to patients, or hunched over a desk all day. Relax by recruiting the soothing hands of a significant other or look up a massage school near you for a discounted massage. &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/training/articles/3036-career-guide-massage-therapist"&gt;Massage students&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; must practice their skills for their training, so they offer their services for about half the cost of a regular massage.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: $15-30
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: Google &#8220;massage school&#8221; and your town and state, or use this &lt;A href="http://www.naturalhealers.com/feat-massage.shtml" TARGET="_blank"&gt;nationwide massage school finder&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;14. Organize Your Living Space&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1511/organize.JPG"&gt;&lt;/center&gt; 
&lt;br /&gt;Ever have one of those mornings where it feels like someone came in during the night and stole your keys, work badge and wallet? From unearthing the heaps of laundry scattered about your room to digging through each of your four work bags, there&#8217;s no doubt about it: your &lt;A href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3697-stress-relieving-home-decor-ideas-on-a-budget"&gt;&lt;b&gt;house is a mess&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. And you feel like your life is kind of a mess too because of it.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Take a Saturday afternoon to roll up your sleeves and get your &lt;A href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3697-stress-relieving-home-decor-ideas-on-a-budget"&gt;&lt;b&gt;living space in order&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. It&#8217;s amazing what coming home to a &lt;b&gt;&lt;A href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3697-stress-relieving-home-decor-ideas-on-a-budget"&gt;clean, organized home&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; can do. If you can control the area you live in, you feel better equipped to control other factors in your life. Plus, you don&#8217;t waste time having to look for everything all the time. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: Free
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: Check out &lt;A href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/3697-stress-relieving-home-decor-ideas-on-a-budget"&gt;Stress Relieving Home D&#233;cor Ideas on a Budget&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;15. Try At-Home Yoga&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1512/yoga.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;Yoga has been practiced for more than 5,000 years. Close to 11 million Americans practice yoga to calm their mind, relieve and prevent chronic medical conditions, and increase flexibility and strength. Yoga harmonizes the mind with body, decreasing anxiety and stress hormone levels and promoting concentration and a good mood.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;A href="?page=4"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Focusing on your breathing&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; during yoga disengages you from your thoughts and helps to calm the mind. Each yoga session ends with five to ten minutes spent relaxing in corpse pose, or &#8220;savasana,&#8221; and you finish with a sense of well-being and feeling of &#8220;oneness&#8221; with the world around you.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Yoga in the studio can burn a big hole in your pocket, so try at-home yoga with a video. &lt;b&gt;&lt;A href="?page=20"&gt;Some libraries&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; carry yoga videos, or you can get cheap yoga videos from Amazon.com or Half.com. If you need to buy a yoga mat, opt for larger, discounted sporting good stores instead of studios or boutiques.  &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: Free (&lt;A href="?page=20"&gt;borrow from library&lt;/a&gt;) or $1-20 (on Amazon.com and Half.com)
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: Visit &lt;A href="http://www.amazon.com" TARGET="_blank"&gt;Amazon.com&lt;/a&gt; or &lt;A href="http://www.half.com" TARGET="_blank"&gt;Half.com&lt;/a&gt; to get cheap yoga videos or your library may have videos to check out. If you have cable, see what's available on health/fitness channels, like &lt;a href="http://fittv.discovery.com/" target="_blank"&gt;FitTV&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;16. Crank Up the Music and Dance&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1520/dancing.JPG"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;The idea of dancing, especially with a partner, can make some people break out in a cold sweat. But dancing can be a great stress reliever by renewing your sense of creativity, revitalizing your energy and boosting your confidence. It even strengthens your immune system, reduces anxiety and floods your body with serotonin. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Because of its health benefits, dance movement therapy is often used in schools, hospitals and rehabilitation centers to treat conditions, like eating disorders, sexual and physical abuse, autism and substance abuse.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;So cast those inhibitions aside, crank up the music, and dance in the privacy of your own home. You can even slip on an oversized dress shirt and socks and rock out like Tom Cruise did in &lt;i&gt;Risky Business&lt;/i&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: Free
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: Crank up the music and dance&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;17. Build a Garden&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1522/gardening.JPG"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  
&lt;br /&gt;Starting and maintaining a garden takes great patience and nurturing from the first step of buying the materials to&lt;b&gt; &lt;A href="?page=9"&gt;taking the first bite&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; of your hard-earned work. But the process of digging, planting, watering, feeding, trimming and watching your plants grow can be amazingly beneficial as stress relief. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Gardening gets you out of the house, away from distractions, and basking in the sun &#8211; heck, just being in the sun improves your mood drastically. &lt;b&gt;&lt;A href="?page=10"&gt;Building a relationship with the outdoors&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; and creating natural beauty helps you feel more at one with your environment and calms your mind.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;You don&#8217;t need an acre of land or very much money to start a garden &amp;mdash; most seeds only cost a couple of cents. Just visit your local garden supply, and pick up some tools, soil, fertilizer and seeds. If you don&#8217;t have a yard, buy a window box and place it in the sunniest window sill. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: $5-30 (for a basic garden)
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: Google &#8220;gardening guide&#8221; or visit &lt;a href="http://www.gardenguides.com/" TARGET="_blank"&gt;GardenGuides.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;18. Take a Long Drive&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1523/driving.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;You may have negative associations with your car if you only use it to drive through rush-hour traffic to get to work or car pool the kids to Little League practice. Consider taking your car out for a spin during the night to relax, have time to yourself, and just drive with nowhere in particular to go. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Either drive in silence or &lt;A href="?page=17"&gt;&lt;b&gt;turn up your favorite album&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, whichever is more relaxing. Roll down all your windows, and let the wind blow through your hair. The most important part is to keep driving, though, so hop on the freeway or take back roads to avoid stoplights. (Having to wait at a stoplight might &lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/benefits/articles/1685-tips-for-reducing-stress"&gt;increase your stress&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;!)&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Having time to yourself and the absence of traffic at night will calm your mind, as will the accompanying music or silence. Safety first, though! Always drive the speed limit and obey traffic laws. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/b&gt;: $5-8 for gas
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/b&gt;: Take your car out for a spin or borrow a friend&#8217;s or family member&#8217;s car&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;19. Borrow a Book or DVD From the Library&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1879/books.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;Picture this: a cool summer evening, a glass of your favorite beverage, and a beloved copy of &lt;i&gt;Harry Potter&lt;/i&gt;. Or Anna Karenina. Or the latest John Grisham novel. Whatever your preference, a book is a great way to unwind at the end of the day. What&#8217;s better? Books are easy to get &lt;i&gt;and&lt;/i&gt; you can get them for free. That&#8217;s right. Sign up for a library card (if a membership isn&#8217;t free, it's most likely a one-time fee of less than $5) and you can check out hundreds, even thousands, of books. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Many libraries even &lt;i&gt;give away&lt;/i&gt; books that aren&#8217;t being checked out anymore or are an older edition. Ask your library if they ever have any book fairs or give-aways, and pick up some great classics! 
&lt;br /&gt;Looking for something a little less literary? Many libraries now carry a large selection of DVDs. Pick up an old classic or the latest hit, and unwind in front of the tube. Renting a DVD from a library is usually free or at most half the cost of renting one from your local video store. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: $0-5
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: Google &#8220;library&#8221; and your town and state or visit &lt;a href="http://www.ala.org/" target="_blank"&gt;American Library Association&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;20. Spend the Day as Mrs./Mr. Fix-It&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1884/fixit.jpg"&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;Remember those &lt;A href="?page=18"&gt;&lt;b&gt;flowers that need replanting&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;? Or that loose board in the deck that should probably be replaced? How about the Christmas lights you still haven&#8217;t taken down? Small tasks like these might seem daunting, but dedicating a day to fixing up your home can help you de-stress and manage your life. You&#8217;ll be getting things done that have been in the back of your mind (or your spouse has been nagging you about!). Plus, &lt;A href="?page=15"&gt;&lt;b&gt;cleaning up your home&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt; can reinvigorate you. Even &lt;b&gt;&lt;A href="?page=8"&gt;painting one wall a new color&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt; can breathe new life into your house. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Completing projects is also a great way to spend time with your family. Dad can dig holes for new flowers while mom repots the dahlias and the kids decide where they go. Looking for some &#8220;me time?" Stay focused (and avoid negative thoughts) by concentrating on one project at a time. Even if you only fix one thing this weekend, you&#8217;ll feel better for accomplishing something. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: Just the money you spend on supplies 
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: Visit &lt;a href="http://www.fixya.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Fixya.com&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.homedepot.com" target="_blank"&gt;Home Depot&lt;/a&gt; or &lt;a href="http://www.lowes.com" target="_blank"&gt;Lowes&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href=" http://www.doityourself.com/ " target="_blank"&gt;DoItYourself.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;br /&gt;Summertime means community festivals, street fairs, and celebrations &#8211; most of which are free. Take advantage of these fun events by gathering a group of friends together to peruse craft fairs or sample tasty treats. You don&#8217;t have to spend any money, but if you see a beautiful, hand-painted teapot that you can&#8217;t live without, you&#8217;re welcome to splurge a little. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;Many free community events include music or movies. Davis, California hosts &#8220;&lt;a href="http://cityofdavis.org/cs/events/moviesinthepark.cfm" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Movies in the Park&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&#8221; all summer long. The city erects a giant projection screen and invites the community to bring their lawn chairs and sleeping bags to Central Park for a free movie. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: Free or however much you want to spend. Walk or take public transportation to save money and reduce emissions
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;More Info&lt;/b&gt;: Check your local community center or City Hall. Google &#8220;summer festivals&#8221; and your town and state&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;h4&gt;&lt;b&gt;22. Go On a Picnic&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;img src="http://allhealthcare.monster.com/nfs/allhealthcare/attachment_images/0005/1885/picnic.jpg"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;i&gt;The AllHealthcare Team Picnic&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/center&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br&gt;A picnic is a relaxing (and affordable!) way to spend quality time with your friends and family. You don&#8217;t have to pack a fancy spread or bottle of champagne to make it a worthwhile trip. Ask everyone to sign up to bring a dish, and turn it into a potluck. Looking for something on the romantic side? Stop by your local farmer&#8217;s market and pick up some strawberries and melt your own chocolate for a delicious treat.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;Cost&lt;/b&gt;: Finding a shady patch of grass and laying down a blanket doesn&#8217;t cost a thing. Pony up the dough for store-bought goods, or make something at home on the cheap. 
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      <dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nina Kim, Georgia Price | AllHealthcare</dc:creator>
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